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i don't know if i can talk about it here?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:05

hello everyone,
i am new here and i don't know,i am not sure if i can talk about it here? i am 20 weeks and 4 days pregnant
,but i am having problems in my life right now,difficulties,complications SadConfused

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:07

As RJ says, what can we do? Can I ask what it was that made you write this today?

Would you feel comfortable talking to your midwife about this at your next appointment?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:08

hmmmmm........i don't know dears SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad thank you so much,you are so sweet,understandableThanksCakeBiscuit

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:10

It doesn't have to be moved at all, panele, I'm so sorry I wrote something that didn't make sense to you. I just meant that this board - Other Subjects - is actually quite a quiet one that not many people read, and there are other boards which are busier and so there will be more people to talk to and more people to help. I can contact MN if you'd like it to be moved somewhere busier?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:11

hmmmmm.......talking to midwife would help and to someone,i wrote it here,maybe i felt lonely,sad,depressed,i just wanted to talk to someone,is it really bad? did i do something wrong?

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:11

There's nothing wrong with it being here it's just more people might see and reply to you in other places.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:12

Ok,i see,you could that,i wouldn't mind dear,thank you ThanksCakeBiscuit

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:13

I'll message them. Where would you like it moved - Pregnancy?

BertieBotts · 31/12/2015 22:14

Hi Panele xx talk away, you haven't done anything wrong. You can click report on your own post and write a message to ask for it to be moved to Relationships if you want.

Seems like there are a few of us on here anyway :) Pull up a chair.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:14

Ok,i see,you could do that,i wouldn't mind,thank you dear ThanksCakeBiscuit After when you do that,please let me know,ok? WinkThanks

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:15

And of course it's not bad to want to talk. That's what MN is here for.

I do think you should consider telling your midwife about what happened with your 'friend'. If you don't mind me asking, when the baby comes, will you be living on your own? If so, I'd imagine that talking to the midwife would help you access support easier if you wanted it.

How has the pregnancy itself been? How is the baby doing?

BertieBotts · 31/12/2015 22:15

Most regulars past the baby stage have pregnancy blocked. Relationships would be better.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:15

Thurlow dear,it can go to pregnancy,it is ok Thanks

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:16

I'm thinking relationships would be much more helpful for you too.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:18

Awwwww thank you for asking,my pregnancy is going well,i am 20 weeks and 4th day now and my baby is due on 2016 May 16th,i am so scared,its my first pregnancy SadConfusedThanks

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:19

Yes,i agree dear,i don't mind where,as long as it will be moved Thanks

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:21

I've reported the thread, so hopefully MN will be along soon. They might post on here to say what they've done, but you shouldn't notice any changes.

I'm glad the pregnancy is going well. Did you give in and find out whether you are having a boy or girl? A first pregnancy is terrifying in any situation!

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:22

i am using MN app on iPhone Sad for this post to be moved and do it myself,i have to go to full website? Hmmmmm

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:24

No it should be fine. It might take a while to get moved as well.

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DawnMumsnet · 31/12/2015 22:25

Hi panele01,

Sorry you're going through a tough time. Flowers

We can see you're getting some good advice and support here, but we're going to move this thread over to our Relationships topic now.

Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:25

They're probably busy tonight but they'll spot my message eventually, so you can just forget about it at the moment.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:25

Ok,thank you dear,it is really scary,especially when its your first and you are having difficulties in your life concerning money serious problems,having conflicts with people when it shouldn't happen,but it does and other things ect SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 22:26

X-post! Thank you HQ Wine for tonight

RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:26

Wow that was fast thanks dawn!

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:27

It was moved,wow ShockWinkThanksCakeBiscuit Thank you so much Thanks

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:29

By the way,Happy New Year everyone ThanksCakeBiscuitWine[santa]Star

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