Blunt question: were you sexually active at 14?

[Mintyy]

As you know I'm not a pervy hairy-handed trucker.

Hopefully you will feel able to answer.

If you were sexually active at 14, can you say anything about why?

No, but I would have been if either of us had had contraception at hand. As we didn't, nothing happened and I ended up losing my virginity at 19 to someone completely different.

No, didn't have a boyfriend at that age either.

No
And not really interested at that age either-

No.

My father would have literally killed me I think. I wasn't even allowed to cut my hair or wear make up.

No. I was 18 and a half. And I still wasn't ready! My DD17 and DS15 look like they're going the same way (thank God!!)

No.

No interest whatsoever.

No boyfriend at all till 17.

Nope, no boyfriend and no boys interested in me!

No, but became sexually active at 15.

yes.

No, 15 yes...with then BF of about 2 years or thereabouts.

No. Heavy petting at 16 intercourse at 18. To be honest if I had a boyfriend who was keen to go that far at 14 I probably would have.

Yes. Because I wanted to be. All my friends were older than me, I was thought to be a "goody two shoes" and it was the one thing I did that no one would ever have expected from me, the straight A, non drinking, non swearing, well behaved girl.

I lost my virginity to my best friends older brother (he was 18) @ 14, we continued to have a "friends with benefits" type arrangement for two years. I don't regret it, I am still friends with him, no one else knew, it didn't interfere with my schoolwork, I knew what I was doing and I have had other "friends with benefits" relationships since.

14 No but I was at 15. He was a year older and we had been together since I was 12. We were always careful. Relationship ended when I was 19 and he well and truly broke my heart.

No. Wasn't even slightly interested at that age. Could only think about ponies. And horses.

Oh god, am I the first yes?! I didbt have sex until I was 16 but I was def starting on the 'bases' at around 14/15.

No, I was 18, my twin sister was though.
I think what she used to tell me in graphic detail had a lot to do with why I wasn't interested in boys until I went to engineering college

Oh, and it was literally one guy, not ever my ' boyfriend', just a mate.

Yes, I did it once when I was 14 with my 18 year old boyfriend. I realised very quickly that this was not something I wanted so I broke up with him and stayed away from boys until I was 18.

There was no pressure, no conversation about it and no alcohol involved. It just happened one day and it shocked me, he wasn't a 'lad' type although I do question why an 18 year old would be interested in a 14 year old - I wasn't particularly mature for my age.

No. Not at all.

Firstly, was at a girls school. Plus was most definitely not one of the cool girls I.e. Socialising much out of school with boys, going to park etc. I was bookish.

Secondly, wasn't interested.

First boyfriend at 16 - mixed 6th form.

yes. started 'sexual contact' at 13, went a bit further at 14 and had intercourse at 15.

Yes, lost my virginity at 13. Idiocy / naivety / rebelliousness I suppose, can't say I've really given it much thought.

I wasn't. Definitely not, and I had boyfriends but never went further than kissing at that age. Ithink I was prob 16 (definitely in lower sixth) before a man got his hands down my pants! At age 15 had a boyfriend who made moves to undo my trousers and I can clearly remember stopping him and saying I wasn't ready for that. Touching of boobs must have happened at some point, can't really remember.