Blunt question: were you sexually active at 14?

[Mintyy]

As you know I'm not a pervy hairy-handed trucker.

Hopefully you will feel able to answer.

If you were sexually active at 14, can you say anything about why?

No, non of my friends were either. 15 to 17 was the norm.

Yes. BF was 18 and he was controlling.

First intercourse with boyfriend of 6 months at age 15.5. But honestly…messing about and snogging from the age of 12.

No. Because I was a child and had a childhood.
My friends were the same as are my kids. There were kids that would have been when I was a kid you could always tell the type. Still can tell these days with kids in my kids years.

Not until I was 20, when I finally met someone I wanted to have sex with who also wanted to have sex with me. But my best friend did - she'd had a boyfriend for a year and it was something they both wanted to do and she has no regrets and looks back on it as a positive thing.

Done 'bits' at 15 with a male friend. Turned 16 met my first love dtd not long after, now we have 2 young kids and getting married in November.

this threads from 2014 😱

Yuk, no.

At age 14, a male friend age 15 & more 'experienced' tried to kiss me. Full teen romance style, tilted my chin up, gazed into my eyes etc. I didn't know what to do & felt uncertain so I punched him on the nose! Later heard about his 'experiences' & glad to have dodged that one!

Nope, i was interested in Video games, friends, wwf and pokémon at that age. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and i wasn't that comfortable then either.

No, I didn't even kiss a boy till I was 17. My daughter is almost 14 and I know she will grow up a lot in the next year but she has only recently stopped thinking kissing sounds gross and still thinks sex sounds disgusting. So I feel 14 is quite young, personally.

No

I was definitely discovering the hours of fun with self love at 14 but didn't get one in the back of the net until 15