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All Aboard The Brave Babes Battle Bus!

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Mouseface · 12/08/2010 10:09

Hello, welcome to thread five!! Smile

I'm Mouse and I'm 10 whole days sober which is bloody amazing given that I would normally consume nearly 90 units per week! And that's without 'special occasions'!! Shock

So, if I can do it, you can do it! The support here is awesome, no matter where you are in your quest to quit. No judging, no cliquey groups.

We are just real, honest people. All helping each other to give up the booze. Come meet the other Brave Babes........................

And for those who would like to read the adventures so far, here are the links from the first four threads!

JWN's original thread (the reason we are all here)

Thread two

Thread three

Thread four

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Mouseface · 12/08/2010 19:22

Nope MissP - it stops where ever you need it to.....

Hop on!!

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MissPerrier · 12/08/2010 19:25

Phew thanks Mouse panic over Grin

Mouseface · 12/08/2010 20:07

Isn't she a russian tennis player?

Grin
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ChristianaTheSeventh · 12/08/2010 20:09

Hello where is everyone?

Did I tell you already venus was very very very wise and clever?! WEll did I?

lastonestanding · 12/08/2010 20:11

Hi,

Mind if I hop aboard?

Today is day 1 for me, so feeling a bit shaky tonight.

Can I ask what you all do when you are out socialising? My problem is when I'm home on my own... I don't find it hard not to drink when other people are around... Not sure if this means I can be trusted in public situations or whether 'no more' has to mean 'no more ever'...

venusandmars · 12/08/2010 20:13

And now I am very embarassed Blush

And not so clever that I've not been a pisshead for years Blush Blush

The clever thing now is to stay sober, each day.

venusandmars · 12/08/2010 20:23

Hi lastone, thing thing is not to think in terms of 'what if' or 'forverer'.

I have no idea what will happen in the future for me and whether I will ever drink again. All I know is that for now, today, I do not intend to have a drink. And I will probably do the same tomorrow, and I expect the same the day after that.

Previously, if I went out and only had a couple of drinks (perhaps because I was at someone's house and that was all that was on offer) then I would be thinking about when I could next have a 'proper' drink. And the next day I would 'reward' myself for having being so well controlled the previous night.

I just cannot be in that position at the moment, so this weekend I have a friend coming to stay. We will be going out and I am planning the weekend around not having a drink. We will be out living it up at the Edinburgh festival. Previously I could not have imagined that without being well oiled, but now I am thinking it will be quite good fun to be sober, to be able to enjoy it and remember it, and not spent half my time queueing for a toilet.

venusandmars · 12/08/2010 20:28

Christi, my garden is looking lovely, I got a few bargains - they were selling big begonias for £1. Not quite at their best but it makes them look very natural in the garden Grin. No one would guess that I hadn't grown them myself.

And I've followed your recommendation and I have booked ticket to see Smoke and Mirrors.

jesuswhatnext · 12/08/2010 20:38

hello all, nice to see a quiet evening again! i have had 'one of those days', feel pretty crappy, dd now has tonsilitis Sad, poor little thing is feeling dreadful, but

I HAVE NOT HAD A DRINK!!

do you know, when i look back, i really dont know how i coped with things like dd/dh being poorly when i was drinking! Sad, i know i looked after them, but it really wasnt to the best of my ability Sad.

i am very Envy at christi and venus!! i would love to meet you all 'in hte flesh' so to speak!, i hope that it is a new friendship that will stand the test of time! Grin

ok, now i know im tired, i have just got very cross at the computer not working and realised that i have been 'useing' my mobile phone as a mouse! Confused

btw - begonias - lovley display for a fwe quid!

jesuswhatnext · 12/08/2010 20:41

another thing!! reading this, i am coming to the conlusion that only me and miflaw are southerners init! Grin

ChristianaTheSeventh · 12/08/2010 20:47

Oooh well done on the bargains.

What day Smoke and Mirrors? We're going on 20th

Mouseface · 12/08/2010 20:50
Grin
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lastonestanding · 12/08/2010 20:51

I'm a southerner Blush

venusandmars · 12/08/2010 20:53

JWN, I am giggling at the thought of you trying to use your phone as a mouse Grin. The other night I was trying to answer the phone using the TV remote control.

Have you managed to get to a meeting JWN, you sound as though you have missed them.

Have a lovely evening everyone.

Mouseface · 12/08/2010 20:54

Nowt wrong with being a southerner!! Smile

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jesuswhatnext · 12/08/2010 21:01

oh venus - thats nothing, the other day i threw the milk away and put a soggy tea bag in the fridge! Blush

no, havent got to meeting yet, hoping to go tomorrow.

lastone - at last!! anavar suvaner fank gawd! (the others talk funny you know!Grin)

Mouseface · 12/08/2010 21:05

I'm going to say goodnight.

DS is not sleeping at all well so I'm off to bed with my book and my Pjs on.

Night Brave Babes.

DAY 11!!!!!!!!!!!!! Amazing. I am amazed.

Stay strong. xx

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lastonestanding · 12/08/2010 21:11

I'm already in my PJs. all ready for bed.

This is my weak time, though. kids in bed, jobs done... wine open Blush

jesuswhatnext · 12/08/2010 21:11

goodnight mouse - hope you and ds have a better night!

btw - DAY 11!!!! BLOODY AWESOME!!!! Grin

jesuswhatnext · 12/08/2010 21:13

put the wine in the fridge and get to bed lastone!!! GO WOMAN!! Grin

lastonestanding · 12/08/2010 21:19

No wine tonight. Smile

venusandmars · 12/08/2010 23:42

No night-time service on this bus then? Smile

MelvynMummy · 12/08/2010 23:56

Parked behind a car. Reg 52 JWN today!!! No gettin away from you lot!

MelvynMummy · 12/08/2010 23:57

--52 JWN

lastonestanding · 13/08/2010 06:32

well, made it through.

Not great night sleep, and feeling rather shaky this morning, but I did it.

I have so much to do today.... but no energy Sad