Shall I tell my ex I am pregnant

[Ammy85]

Hi all,

I am currently 6 weeks pregnant with my first child. My partner and I broke up a couple of weeks ago but it has been a toxic and damaged relationship for the last 4 years so walking away I felt free for once ...I have no found out I am pregnant but I want nothing to do with him, he was abusive emotionally and a narcissist and I know if I tell him he will try and worm his way back.
Being a first time mum and moving out of our flat to back to mums and investing all my savings into his business I am now scared and financially screwed .
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I am now starting to doubt keeping the baby and am so stressed out !
Ps. I am 34

Best of luck with whatever you decide OP.

Being a mum is just incredible, but it is bloody hard. Even splitting the load with my partner it is still exhausting. I had my daughter when I was 35 and got pregnant second month trying - you're still young and have options if you decide not to go ahead with this pregnancy.

How are you doing?

Hey... what did you decide? Do you have a happy 2 year old or did you meet someone else and have a child?