He’s had a vasectomy and I’m pregnant

[OverThinkingUnderDoing]

I’ve been seeing someone for about 6 months, thought all was going really, really well. We’re both divorced, 2 dc each and neither of us want more. He had a vasectomy after his youngest was born 8 years ago (he’s definitely not lying about this due to a funny anecdote that all his mates love to remind him about).

I’ve been feeling really under the weather for the last few weeks. Did a CV test, all fine. It was only at the supermarket this morning that I suddenly thought maybe I’m pregnant and grabbed a test just to put my mind at ease. I’ve always had irregular periods, not had one since September but that’s nothing unusual.

Just did the test and I’m pregnant. I could fucking scream. I’ve just had the worst year of my entire life, meeting this man is the only good thing that’s happened to me in years.

I know what I’ve got to do. I just don’t want to do it and wanted to vent somewhere.

What a roller coaster op. I think you should spell it out to your partner in one syllable words to avoid him thoughtlessly saying something really upsetting - I know we never wanted a baby and this was a huge shock but once I realised I was definitely pregnant i started to get attached to the idea so this has all been very upsetting , please don’t say anything trite like all for the best.

Apologies Op for my comment above which was inappropriate.
I wish you all the best.

You are after going through a horrible time. I hope you feel better soon.

OP sending sympathies for this horrid chain of events, you really have been through an emotional roller coaster... I hope your relaxing and enjoying the break