He’s had a vasectomy and I’m pregnant

[OverThinkingUnderDoing]

I’ve been seeing someone for about 6 months, thought all was going really, really well. We’re both divorced, 2 dc each and neither of us want more. He had a vasectomy after his youngest was born 8 years ago (he’s definitely not lying about this due to a funny anecdote that all his mates love to remind him about).

I’ve been feeling really under the weather for the last few weeks. Did a CV test, all fine. It was only at the supermarket this morning that I suddenly thought maybe I’m pregnant and grabbed a test just to put my mind at ease. I’ve always had irregular periods, not had one since September but that’s nothing unusual.

Just did the test and I’m pregnant. I could fucking scream. I’ve just had the worst year of my entire life, meeting this man is the only good thing that’s happened to me in years.

I know what I’ve got to do. I just don’t want to do it and wanted to vent somewhere.

@Overthinkingunderdoing oh you poor thing, what a time you've had! I've been thinking about you. Your partner sounds amazing, what an ordeal, I hope you can both relax together this weekend x

You’ve had a horrible week op take care of yourself

Oh gosh OP, what a shocking and horrible week you've had. Take care of yourself x

Gentle hug OverThinkingUnderDoing, what a rotten time you've had

sorry to hear that

What an ordeal you’ve been through. I’m sure you’ll have very mixed and contradictory feelings - it’s ok to feel all of them x

OP I hope you are feeling better by the day.
Lots of and handholding.
You had such a bad time. I hope you recover promply and have some nice time this weekend.
Million

I'm sorry you've had a hell of a week OP

take care op.

Bloody hell. I’m sorry OP, what a week Take care

Hugs, what an emotional rollercoaster.

So sorry OP.

Hugs &

Please be very kind to yourself you've had quite a traumatic week x

I'm so sorry. It's a bit of a headfuck isn't it - just when you're starting to wrap your head around what's happened it's over and you don't know how to feel about any of it.

Take care of yourself.

Hugs op. What a week. I'm glad your partner was supportive. Be kind to yourself this week. It's ok to grieve for a situation you didn't ask or plan to be in if you need to xx

Sorry you had to go through all that - what a shitty curveball to come at you after an already difficult year. 💐

💐

You poor thing, such a lot to go through in a few days, you rest up

Oh OP, so much to go through
Have you told your partner that you've miscarried?
Big hugs.

Blimey, what a rough time for you. I hope your partner will take good care of you today

big hugs hope you are as ok as you can be right now xx

I’m ok thanks. Feeling a bit rubbish at the moment but heading up to see partner for a couple of days now. We’re going to get takeaway and watch films and just be utter slobs for the next 48hours. Then he can bugger off to the doctors and be castrated.

@OverThinkingUnderDoing sounds the absolute best thing to do.

The castration bit made me snort with laughter.

I hope you start to feel a bit better soon after such an emotional week

(Maybe get a couple of bricks and offer to do the job properly yourself)!

@OverThinkingUnderDoing

I’m ok thanks. Feeling a bit rubbish at the moment but heading up to see partner for a couple of days now. We’re going to get takeaway and watch films and just be utter slobs for the next 48hours. Then he can bugger off to the doctors and be castrated.

Good to hear