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Am I the only MNer who...

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amialoneinthis · 14/11/2004 20:57

... would have a problem with dh/dp masturbating or watching porn or going to a strip club?

I'm always amazed at the relaxed attitude on here - recently seen again on a couple of threads.
Dh and I don't have a lot of sex, due to children, tiredness etc. I'm still 99% certain that dh does none of the above things. I couldn't bear it if he watched any porn. My rational side wouldn't see masturbating as a problem, but I would still hate it.

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codswallop · 14/11/2004 21:34
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Gobbledigook · 14/11/2004 21:36

amialoneonthis - what about when he goes to the loo and takes his time or has a shower - def enough time for masturbation.

Might keep stuff at work - go to the loo there? Get stuff off the blokes at work.

There's always the possibility you are right and he's just not that type of bloke (I don't know him after all and you do) but I don't know any so if true, he's VERY rare.

Gobbledigook · 14/11/2004 21:36

Sallystrawberry! Glad you said that as I just suggested the loo at work and thought people might think I'm a bit mad, but come on, a bloke has to get his release somehow and most of them are not that fussy about location as long as they've got access to a picture of a naked woman!!!

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 21:37

also the brain is brilliant for imagining things

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 21:38

AND have you never noticed the way men sometimes look at you at work? eh? eh?

Munnzieb · 14/11/2004 21:38

Neither of them bother me at all. I've been out with DH when another woman tried coming onto him... Luckily she was really ugly (i don't mean that to sound as bitchy as it seems but she was really bad-and i'm no oil painting) anywyas, I found it rather funny, and take it as a compliment when someonelse takes a liking to him. also as he works away a lot, I would rather he look at the books and do his thing (you know) that go else where for any kind of sex...

tammybear · 14/11/2004 21:38

jools i was going to say that! u beat me to it lol

Gobbledigook · 14/11/2004 21:39

Oh no, no, no - y'see not blokes!! They don't have an imagination - they NEED porn!!

At least that's what I've been told!! LOL!!

prefernot · 14/11/2004 21:40

I don't have a problem with masturbation, especially when having kids makes it more difficult to be together sexually. I think lots of people here are right that many men use porn etc. and I wouldn't disclude my dp from that list. But personally I don't like porn and I hate strip clubs not because of sexual possessiveness on my part or prudishness, I just hate the way women are depicted in all of them and I hate the fact that men get turned on by such crass representations of women.

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 21:40

they have PLENTY of imagination

codswallop · 14/11/2004 21:41

no prefer not the rpoblem is that ment hink the women in lap dancing clubs really fancy t hem!!!
poor deluded souls

Gobbledigook · 14/11/2004 21:41

OK, dh is just a perv then

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 21:42

now I think THAT is truly seedy and agree cods - men are soooooo deluded - Ha!

RudyDudy · 14/11/2004 21:43

amialoneinthis - why do you assume if he's wanking that he's thinking about someone else?

I don't have a problem with masturbation or porn - though I'd like to be invited to both

DH has been to a strip club on a stag do and it didn't really bother me but if it were a regular thing then I think I'd find it harder to deal with.

prefernot · 14/11/2004 21:51

I also think it's perfectly feasible that there might be a few men who don't go for porn or strip clubs and would have more self-respect than to sneak off to the loo for a quick wank at work!

Munnzieb · 14/11/2004 21:54

don't think i'd like DH to be a regular at a strip joint, and i don't like him to be a regular with porn when he's at home, thou whilst i'm at work i don't really care. as I say as long as i don't find out he's with someone else more or less everything is ok by me.

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 21:55

wish we could get some of the dads on this thread? how can we?

jampot · 14/11/2004 22:32

I will get dh on this when he gets back in from the pub but I warn you - he's brutal!!

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 22:37

r u sure he's at the pub jammy?

jampot · 14/11/2004 22:39

i dont give a shit where he is to be honest

Munnzieb · 14/11/2004 22:43

Girls, DH has just logged onto MSN (he's away at reh mo and this is his views... not mine ok) and he's a squaddie so he says it as it is so sorry in advance if it might offend any one

"wanking is natural for everyone men...the fact that he does it to pornstrippersetc just shows that he has a poor imagination...And im afraid the 1% wins...ALL men wank...i dont care what they say...even if they have the best sex in the world 4/5 times a week...men still wank....its genetic..."

Of course that's just his view and as i say... squaddie!

handlemecarefully · 14/11/2004 22:48

Don't care if dh masturbates or uses porn - would draw the line at strip clubs however

JoolsToo · 14/11/2004 22:58

Munnzieb - knew it was true! - lets face it they start playing with it from day one!

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