amialoneinthis, no you're not (well, not quite)
Until I met dp I had no strong feelings on porn, it was not something that I could ever be bothered to form opinions on. However, dp is a real thinker, and his academic background is in philosophy, and he is more of a feminist than me (and I'm pretty feminist). He is strongly against porn, has bought academic polemics on the subject in the past, and has often argued very strongly and passionately against porn. In none of these arguments has he mentioned anything sexual or to do with his own sex drive - he sees it as exploitation and as wrong. As I say, I have no strong views, and even now would not have a problem with him having porn (although I would feel sad that he had argued so cogently against it and done it anyway - I would feel his intellectual credentials were lacking, and that would upset me more).
He would go along on a stag night, if invited. And if it involved a strip club, I'm sure he'd go along, because he is a friendly type of bloke. However, most stag nights he goes on involve lots of eating and drinking, chatting and laughing. When he gets together with his mates he talks about politics or films or books, and thats about it (maybe a bit of cricket), and that's how they enjoy themselves.
I'm sure he masturbates. I haven't been awake enough since ds was born to have noticed! If I was awake I would demand to be involved, cos I quite fancy him! But he does have the lowest sex drive of any man I've ever met. I used to occassionaly worry that maybe that maybe his sex drive was low with me cos he was getting it elsewhere, but you only need to spend two minutes with him to know he's genuine and not hiding anything.
So amialoneinthis, no, I don't think you are.