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Help.......... Ex related CSA and extra payments......

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Reginaphalangey · 29/10/2012 11:54

Can anyone offer me some advice please........

I have no biological kids of my own (yet) but My wonderful partner of 6months has a 4yr old child from a previous marriage,

His ex left him, and since the split he has had 50% custody of the child and has faithfully paid monthly amounts over half extra to the amount required of him by law through the CSA......

His ex however is challenging him that he does not contribute enough...... And over and above him paying extra to her per month, she now expects him to pay half of all extra curricular activities!!!

To me this seems unreasonable, and that she will continue to want more and more from him.....
But my querie is, what do the child support payments cover, and can anyone else offer their opinion on my dilemma??

Should he drop back to paying only the required monthly amount??? And should she be demanding any extra above the figure given by the CSA???

Thanks for reading

OP posts:
MrsjREwing · 30/10/2012 15:26

It only takes one to stop things being amicable.

PickledFanjoCat · 30/10/2012 15:27

Yep, you cant deal with some people Mrs J.. its lucky if you have a decent chap, and a decent EXbitch.

MrsjREwing · 30/10/2012 15:51

It is always the exbitch's fault, insert various samples of violent language, your mooncup size, clothes size, bust size, height, hair lenght and then get exbitch to swivel on it, yet not want to stick your middle finger to swivel on her anus.

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