Help.......... Ex related CSA and extra payments......

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Can anyone offer me some advice please........

I have no biological kids of my own (yet) but My wonderful partner of 6months has a 4yr old child from a previous marriage,

His ex left him, and since the split he has had 50% custody of the child and has faithfully paid monthly amounts over half extra to the amount required of him by law through the CSA......

His ex however is challenging him that he does not contribute enough...... And over and above him paying extra to her per month, she now expects him to pay half of all extra curricular activities!!!

To me this seems unreasonable, and that she will continue to want more and more from him.....
But my querie is, what do the child support payments cover, and can anyone else offer their opinion on my dilemma??

Should he drop back to paying only the required monthly amount??? And should she be demanding any extra above the figure given by the CSA???

Thanks for reading

so what im dyslexic, id rather get some words spelt wrong that be a scrounger beggin for money off an ex! and if being a mug means my girls no its me who has put the food on the table and paid for the 3 holidays abroad a year and not having to rely on csa then so be it. if youd wipe the pound signs outa ur eyes and read the comments i put wasnt saying all women but ffs if your all like this on here then its no wounder the dad walked dont f**king listn to owt! ur like mangy mutts with a bone!!

nicky you havent answered my questions.

Poor poor fella.

i dont see who i work with as anything to do with you tbh

someone has done a real number on you nicky. you really dont like women at all. who taught you that?

i meant my other question, asking if you understood what i was saying about the small world or if you wanted me to explain. i will if you want.

poor daughters more like. some horrible views on women pouring out here and no doubt at home too.

ahem.

aren't trolls supposed to be exiled or sumat?

Has the original poster been back since Nicky started to give her intelligent and succinct views on life, love, women, slags, work and csa?

I'm a bit skint with crimbo coming up. Time to get knocked up again.

nope, funny that.

I think there is some severe projection going on here.

for you nicky that you got pregnant without the man's 'permission' and that this has spawned such terrible opinions of yourself.

You should get some help with these feelings, honestly it's not good to be teaching your daughters such deeply misogynistic principles.

yeh fanjo if yer lucky it will be twins with different dads and you can csa lotto crazy, whoop whoop!

Or she's someone who is with a bloke who pays child support and she is very bitter about this, and possibly the fact he has a child with someone else, therefore other women are jealous, bitter, money grabbing slags etc etc.

Either way, she has serious issues.

what about a standard mnhq response to this sort of trolling;

Dear OP for future note Daily Mail + Jeremy Kyle = bad data, for betterment of self seek libraries, Jon Stewart + Huffington Post. Please absorb difference between fiction and non-fiction en route for ultimate success.

awaiting wrist slap [hwink]

Hi Olivia. Where's Nicky gone?

Why should we get a wrist slap? This is goading, nasty, offensive ill informed, claptrap.

And txt speak. THERE IS A LIMIT!