I'm getting a termination

[Sadandveryupset]

Hi !
I have posted few posts on my present situation. DH and I had a condom failure, took the MAP and it didnt work as I'm now pregnant. It's still really hard to believe I'm pregnant, it's my third pregnancy.
I cant keep it because I have already 2 young daughters, we cant afford to have another one. I'm so so so sad to have to go trought with it. If I keep it, it's going to wreck my family, I'll never be able to look after 3 young children, we'll always be poor, not being able to afford a house. I love my dds so much and I want to anything I can to be there for them at every levels. Has anyone been in my situation ? How do you live after such a trauma ?

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You may not have anything, obviously everyone's situation's are different, probably best to be prepared though.

I hope your ok tomorrow & will be thinking of you xx

Sending good thoughts your way Summerfruit, and glad you have found the strength.

xxx

Summer, you may not feel anything. my second mc was at 5 weeks and I couldn't feel anything specific.
Hope it goes as well as possible

Just wanted to say that you sound as though you feel that you have made the right decision. It does take courage to go through with it and i'm please that you have made your decision and stuck with it.

Hope all goes well today and i will be thinking of you !!! xxxxxx

Hi summer, I am sorry I wasn't about again yesterday, was busy with visitors!

I am thinking of you, and sending as many hugs possible thr the grand internet;

I saw that your peace did in fact come, and that you made your descicion, and am so glad for you had you had your right feelings come thro, and that your DH was there for you supporting you rather than pressuring you.

I am so hoping that today you are resting and taking the right care of yourself, instead of trying to be 'brave'. You still need to give yourself time to heal physically as well as emotionally as you must feel very drained by everything you have been thro, highs and lows, as well as the hormonal influence too!

take care, am thinking of you. xxx

I agree with Psychomum too.

Thinking of you summer xx

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Oh I am glad that you are getting the rest and support from DH, and that you are taking comfort in your DD's.

and I am glad that you can cry too, as you are letting go instead of with-holding (if you can understand what I mean).

hugs

Just because you consciously made the decision to have the termination does not mean that you do not have the right to grieve. So cry as much as you need to, holding it in is very unhealthy.

Am thinking of you summer, hope your holding up ok xx

Hi Summer just to let you know am still thinking of you & hoping your doing ok xx

I am still about sending healing thoughts and hoping that you are still taking care of yourself. xx