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#makeithappen TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided. All welcome. Thread 8

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kwick · 20/04/2017 20:51

This thread is for anyone trying to conceive... or thinking about doing so through donor IUI or donor IVF. Nothing TMI - feel free to join, we are a lovely group here to support and help keep the cray-cray away!

Here is the link to the previous thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/donor_conception/2886793--makeithappen-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-All-welcome-Thread-7
And the one before that: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/donor_conception/2863056--makeithappen-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome-Thread-6
Here is the link to the one before that: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2832207--makeithappen-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome
Here is the link to the one before that one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2769549-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome-makeithappen-loadsofBFPs
Here is the link to the thread before that: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2688511-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome-makeithappen
Here is the link to the one before that one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2587046-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-or-just-undecided-all-welcome
And the one before that!: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1877198-Donor-IUI
We also have a weight loss spin off thread:www.mumsnet.com/Talk/donor_conception/2889818-TTC-through-Donor-IUI-or-Donor-IVF-weight-loss-spin-off-thread

#makeithappen TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided. All welcome. Thread 8
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pickle162 · 30/04/2017 09:25

@PhoenixMama did you get a response from seller of out of date opks?

So I'm just waiting for AF to start after stopping the pill 🙄 last af I actually want to happen

PhoenixMama · 30/04/2017 09:41

@pickle162 Yeah they said to send them back & they'll refund them. So annoying!

pickle162 · 30/04/2017 09:45

Grrr hope they refund your p&p too!!!! Little buggers Angry

PhoenixMama · 30/04/2017 10:24

So I've googled myself into a panic... I tend to ovulate CD12/13 is that too early for a decent lining to be built up? I want to make sure there's a good little bed waiting for my embie... af tends to be quite heavy so I know I do a decent lining overall but I worry as that all comes after OV...

Bear1980 · 30/04/2017 10:24

Ooo how exciting @INeedNewShoes its not long now. Good that you have your family there to help when you get home Smile

INeedNewShoes · 30/04/2017 10:33

Phoenix - I think that's ok. I know my surge was always somewhere cd12–cd14, which my clinic said was fine.

Pez82 · 30/04/2017 10:34

Phoenix, I always ovulate CD11-12 and have very light AF and yet my lining was always thick enough on IUI day so don't worry! It usually went from 5mm on CD7 to 8mm on CD12-13 (they want to see a minimum of 7mm). For my egg transfer they didn't even check!
Ginger and pineapple will help 😊

Pez82 · 30/04/2017 10:36

Shoes, can't believe the D day is so close, when I joined the thread you were only a few weeks pregnant!
All the best for these last few days of preparation. Did you ever find out about the sex? I know you were always talking about the feeling it was a boy but I can't remember if you know for sure or not

INeedNewShoes · 30/04/2017 11:26

Hi Pez - I don't know for definite. I think it's a boy. My dad says he knows it's a girl, so someone is very wrong Wink

Pez82 · 30/04/2017 12:45

Ah ah it will be a nice surprise then 😊

PaisleyBE · 30/04/2017 13:21

Pickle - last af I actually want to happen - totally right there with you. Mine just finished, so I'm about to start LH surge anticipation period on Tuesday or so. Mine comes usually around the day 14, so no need to start with opks right away for me. Actually, I need to buy them, as I have only two left. Hmm

Shoes , I'm SO EXCITED for you! May is the best month to be born in, I can tell. Wink I love how you didn't find out the sex of the baby, that's something I'm really considering. I'm glad that your mum is better and that you have all the support. Fingers crossed for speedy recovery.

Lovely sunny (at least over here) Sunday to all of you, ladies. Flowers

PhoenixMama · 30/04/2017 13:40

Paisley So excited to be tww-big with you too! (At least for part of it!) Gonna need you ladies to keep me sane(ish)!

pickle162 · 30/04/2017 14:21

Ditto

kwick · 30/04/2017 15:47

Not sure if you guys got to see this - not as amazing as @Pez82 but good nonetheless 

Yay ! a parking thread
http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2897401-Yay-a-parking-thread

You're welcome Grin

@Bear1980 looks fab!!!

Wow @Munrowalker amazing photo... I will not embarass myself by asking if you have ever seen Nessie

Implications counselling was also compulsory at CRGH. I found the session very insightful. TBH I had not though about the "risk" of half siblings. The counsellor was very clear she was not providing an opinion on my suitability as a potential mummy.

@INeedNewShoes great news about your mum. Looks like you are all set!!!! Please keep us updated!!! I think it will be a girl...

I strongly recommend drinking lots if blue organic milk from AF to ovulation - helps with follies and lining.

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pickle162 · 30/04/2017 16:40

Ah I'd be well mad if someone parked in my space- well my neighbours did when they first moved in as the estate agent told them it was a 'spare' space....ummm where the fek did you think I parked,just in the spare space every day for a laugh!!

I too am waiting for the boy/girl question to be answered too shoes Smile

kwick · 30/04/2017 16:43

Any bets anyone? Wink

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Pez82 · 30/04/2017 17:01

Aargh I just read the whole thread!!
I wonder if I could bring mine back to life the day my neighbour tries to get her car out!?

I think it's a boy 👩‍👦

pickle162 · 30/04/2017 17:52

I think boy too

StorkAhoy · 30/04/2017 20:04

I think girl! (Like I know, but I'm backing up the grandpa!)

PhoenixMama · 30/04/2017 20:27

I'm calling boy too!

kwick · 30/04/2017 21:33

pez I am sure you can but maybe we can have interim updates...

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Hopeful25 · 30/04/2017 22:09

Girl she seems to know her own mind!

Bear1980 · 30/04/2017 22:20

I'm gonna say boy

pickle162 · 30/04/2017 23:09

(33hours to go)

Karendvm · 01/05/2017 01:30

Pez do you have your scan tomorrow? Good luck!

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