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In memory of the light of my life, Lucia, and all of our little ones taken too soon. x

Have lit a candle for Catherine. Add me on Facebook if you like Lottie Jenkins.

Thanks PPM.

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Accepted Susan thanks xx

happy birthday catherine,and big hugs to you sassy,candle lit her in yorkshire, big hugsxx

Morning girls xx

Morning all x

It sound like yesterday went as well as it could for you Sassy . The image of Catherines little friend is heartbreaking but lovely all at the same time x

Morning all, i have the funeral of my close friends Mum today. She is the Gran of Wilfs best friend. She killed herself two weeks ago. I havent told Wilf anything that he doesnt need to know. Jack (W's friend) had his 15th birthday yesterday, He is autistic as well and has been very brave and decided to go to the service. My Mum and Ali are going to come with me!!

Lottie. Hope today is ok for all of you....I dont know the right words to be honest with you. xx

Thanks Shabs xx Jack had his 15th birthday yesterday, i went round and had tea and cake with them. Wilf rang up when i was there and they had a lovely interpreted at Wilfs end chat! The church is going to be full to bursting i have no doubt about that!

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Thanks for your messages, i managed ok. My mum and Ali came with me. Karen was so brave she stood up and talked about her Mum, i dont think i could have done that......

Thanks for your messages, i managed ok. My mum and Ali came with me. Karen was so brave she stood up and talked about her Mum, i dont think i could have done that......

sorry for the double post!

Morning girls xxx

Feeling really sad today, no particular reason just feeling really sad. Hope everyone has had a better day than I have had fingers crossed for better day tomorrow xx

Join the club Lavandes.

I know what today's trigger is, tiredness and feeling a little unwell (the start of a cold I think - it's bloody June fgs!)

There has been lots of talk between friends about their dc starting school in Sept. I enjoy the conversations to a point, but then it dawns on me (yet again) that C should have been starting school then too. It's just so bloody unfair isn't it?

Morning girls xx

morning. how are you today shabs?

Oh...not too bad thanks Shelley xxx

good good. Hows the count down to Falarki looking?

59 sleeps and counting.

We have paid for the flights and accommodation BUT have very little spending money - after the initial panic we have decided to max out credit cards and beg, borrow or steal the rest - how very mature of us

We only live once AND eventually we will pay it all back

not long now then. Im jealous lol. Is there anything lurking round the house that can be ebayed or car boot or something to help a little?
I get a week in great yarmouth but that works out cheap just the travel and 2 nights in a hotel where only have to pay for DH and myself. Rest of the week we're staying with family.

Have been ebaying for the last week

So far have raised enough for a good night out and kebabs on the way home - OMG I am a classy bird!!

If its my idea of a good night out when i was in corfu then you've got a fair bit sorted. We spent alot quite a bit on nights out but majority were 11/12 hours lol. Hope you get plenty more sorted