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My husband died today

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bloodywhitecat · 27/02/2022 21:31

Five years to the day after moving here to be with me, on my son's 30th birthday my wonderful DH died.

He had had cancer, a stroke then the daft bugger broke his leg, he was so determined the cancer wouldn't get him despite it having a 3% survival rate and he was doing well until a massive stroke hit and all treatment was off. He died early this morning and spent most of the day here, in our home, surrounded by family doing family things. It was just me and him when he died, he looked for me one last time and I held him as he took his last breath, I told him he was loved and that his daughter was coming to see him today. For the first time in weeks he looked free, no pain, no disability from the stroke just calmness.

OP posts:
IDidntFloatUpTheLaganInABubble · 27/02/2022 21:51

So sorry for your loss x

Workinghardeveryday · 27/02/2022 21:51

Oh my love x this is heartbreaking to read. You both sound so lovely and I am so very sorry this has happened to you both. Xxxx

OdeToSadDisco · 27/02/2022 21:51

I'm so sorry to read this x

Floralnomad · 27/02/2022 21:52

Sorry for your loss @bloodywhitecat , I’ve commented on a few of your threads and it always sounded like you had a lovely relationship . Take care 💐

PrettyVacancy · 27/02/2022 21:53

I’m so sorry to read this, but pleased that the end was so peaceful 💐

Nsky · 27/02/2022 21:54

Sorry for your loss, glad he is at peace

ColourMeExhausted · 27/02/2022 21:54

I am so sorry and sad to read this @bloodywhitecat. I have read your updates since your DH was diagnosed with cancer, and the suffering he has endured (and you as well) has been heartbreaking. I hope there is some small comfort in knowing he is at peace but can only imagine the grief you are experiencing. Sending you Flowers and kind thoughts.

Alfiemoon1 · 27/02/2022 21:55

I am so sorry I have also followed your journey. Sending you and your family love and strength

ChimChimeny · 27/02/2022 21:56

I am.so, so sorry for your loss. I've come across you.on a few different threads and often thought of you & your DH.

You.were.so.lucky to have each other and you loved.each other so.much and that will never die

tkwal · 27/02/2022 21:56

💐

TokyoSushi · 27/02/2022 21:56

I've also followed you since the start, I'm so sorry to hear your news, you've all been incredible. Take care @bloodywhitecat

Summerfun54321 · 27/02/2022 21:57
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Imsittinginthekitchensink · 27/02/2022 21:57

I am so sorry for your loss Flowers

SugarAndSpiceIsNice · 27/02/2022 21:57

I'm so sorry. Flowers

newbiename · 27/02/2022 21:57

Sorry for your loss 💐

Cecilia2016 · 27/02/2022 21:58

I’m so sorry for your loss x

JackieQueen · 27/02/2022 21:59

So sorry for your loss, Flowers

Josette77 · 27/02/2022 21:59

I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

sofakingcool · 27/02/2022 21:59

So sorry for your loss bloody, look after yourself x

Riseholme · 27/02/2022 21:59

So sorry for your loss OP. Flowers

sabusays · 27/02/2022 21:59

So sorry to read this news @bloodywhitecat
Wishing you love at this difficult time and glad to hear your family are with you

poppaloo · 27/02/2022 21:59

I'm so very sorry to hear this, wishing you comfort and peace. Thanks

loobylou10 · 27/02/2022 22:00

Sorry to read this. I've followed your story and your love for each other shone through. Rest in peace x

harrystylestaylorswift · 27/02/2022 22:00

So sorrry x

BigRedDuck · 27/02/2022 22:01

I am so sorry @bloodywhitecat. Have seen your previous posts. Thinking of you Flowers

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