Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I have posted on some of your threads before..
Please contact your family - I know you've said perviously that you are not that close, but I'm sure they will want to help you with through this.

Your children have a lovely mum and they will be okay - you need to grieve and care for yourself too.

Please keep coming on here and let us know if there is any help we could offer.

I'm so sorry.

Take care.

I am so sorry, I hope YG sees this thread as she will hve a far closer idea than most of us what you are feeling.

there are no magic words, if there were I would give you them. But so very sorry to hear of your loss, and you and your children are in my thoughts. Remember that having the children means you still have a part of your beloved dh.

XXX

I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

What an awful shock for you all. If there is anything we can do for you, please do ask.

The exact same thing happened to a neighbour on New Years Eve. DH went off fishing and had a heart attack, leaving 4 children behind, completely out of the blue.

I will say a prayer for you and your family.

How shocking and sad

I am very sorry for your families loss.

What a awful thig to have happened, my thoughts are with you.

Sorry to hear your shocking news will include you and your family in my prayers.

I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss.

So sad and shocking for you

You are in my prayers

thinking of you at this sad time. I wish I could say more xxx

So very sorry.

OH that'a truly awful, I don't think there are any words to comfort your pain at the moment. Keep your family around you, take each hour as it comes.. so so sorry

Oh gosh. I could not post on this thread. My thought are with you. I was a baby when my dad died suddenly.Your children will be OK, just make sure you look after yourself.

OMG I am so so sorry - my heart goes out to you and your children - both very similar ages to mine.

M2T&F I'm so so sorry. Sending you courage and strength ~~~~vibes~~~~ and thinking of you and your children. Please let us know how you are when you can. xxxx

So incredibly sorry for you all.

MummmytoTandF, I am so sorry to hear this - how utterly devastating. If there is anything at all we can do to help, just say. Glad you have your family with you just now.

I will be thinking of you ((((((()))))))))))

Oh God I just looked at your profile page and saw your wedding pic - what a lovely handsome man he was

I'm so sorry for your loss.

i'm so so sorry to hear this , my thoughts are with you and your family at ths awful time.

This is truly i am so so sorry for your loss, am thinking of you & your children

I am so very sorry Terrible, shocking news

Oh my word I am so sorry. .

Much sympathy for you and your childrren.