Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

My deepest sympathy.

Oh no. I was only looking at your lovely wedding photo and pictures of your beautiful children the other day. I'm so sorry.

I know some of the feelings you have when you have shocking news like this delivered in this way but it must so much worse as it is your dear husband and father of your children.

The children and I are looking at your profile pics and really thinking of you.

I understand how being on here helps even though it isn't that 'real' in many ways it really helped me also.

Anything we can do to help then let us know when you need it.

sorry, so sorry t hear this.
xxx

I'm so sorry to hear this - my thoughts are with you and your children.

I am so very very sorry, you have me in tears, I so wish I coud change this for you x

So so sorry to read this

Sorry to hear this, horrible news, my thoughts are with you and your family

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so sorry to hear of your loss mumm2tandf.

I'm so so sorry

Oh gosh - I'm so sorry.

So sorry to hear this - my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at such a tragic time ... xx

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you strength to get through this terrible time x

OMG what a terribls shock

don't know what to say apart from that I'm thinking of you and your family

thinking of you all xx

So sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family. xxx

How utterly awful

I'm so sorry.

So very sorry Thinking of you all.

Oh god, I am so, so sorry

I wish I could say something more helpful

I am so so sorry to read this. Wishing you strength to get through this to the other side...keep talking whenever you want, someone will always be here to listen.

xxx

I'm so sorry

i'm so sorry

What a shock
I'm so sorry

have absolutely no idea what to say, except that i am so very,very sorry that you have lost your darling husband, in such a shocking and unexpected way. I wish you and yours the strenth to get through the times ahead ,and that you will reach a point where you can recall your times as a family, with a smile... CRUSE is an excellent resource, I trust you have your friends and family around you at this devastating time. what else to say?