Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

OMG I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say just that i'm here.

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry

Oh God - how awful - so so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry

I don't have any advice, but wish you strength for you and your children.

Oh god, what a shock for you

So sorry

Glad you have someone with you in RL

oh my God, how shocking. You poor poor thing. Do you have freinds and family on their way over to you to be there with you?

Oh you poor thing. We met at the Mile for Maude in Romford, I just couldnt read this and not offer you my heartfelt condolences. you must be in total shock. I just dont know what else to say.....so so sorry for you.

I am so sorry

I'm so sorry for your loss.

omg, I'm so sorry.
I have chatted to you before on Mumsnet over the years.
I imagine you are still in shock. Yorkiegirl might be able to help with practcial advice.

OMG i am so sorry for you sweetheart i really dont know what to say to you as it is so fresh just know that im thinking of you x x

Whoops, sorry, just read that your family are there with you. Glad about that. Just so sorry about everything else

So sorry m2t&f, you must be in complete shock. Thinking of you and your beautiful DCs, glad you have family with you, lean on them and us.

i am so sorry for your loss
don't be on your own - rally your friends and family round you
get someone to call your GP to let him know don't tell your children anything this minute

you have so many questions right now, but don't think about anything other than getting through the next minute or two

Got to go back downstairs now before they all get worried but will come back later to my mn friends

oh god, im so so sorry, thinking of you and your family x

Such terrible news, so, so sorry.

We're all here whenever you need to come back and chat.

my heart goes out to you I'm very sorry for your loss

You will find a huge amount of support on here and in RL.
You are still in shock ATM.
I am truely sorry for your sudden loss.

how tragic, so so sorry for you and your children

I am so sorry - you must be completely in shock. Let your family and friends rally round to help and just take it one day at a time - that's the only "advice" I can offer, really. Thinking of you.

So sorry to hear this. I am sure that people here will help you as much as they can. Poor you and your children.

so sorry thinking of you and your children

So sorry - what a terrible shock. {{{{HUGS}}}}