Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

[meandmy]

that is awful take your time greiving try to sleep as the crying will wear you out, im so sorry.

[eandh]

I am so sorry, sending you and the dc love and prayers xx

[BecauseImWorthIt]

So sorry to hear your news

[Whimsy]

I am so sorry

[Flower3554]

Deepest sympathies

What an awful tragedy for you to have to deal with. Lean on your family and friends as much as you can.

[nutcracker]

So sorry xxx

[susue]

Thinking of you and your lovely children. What a dreadful thing to happen to you all. Last February the police came to tell us that my brother had died while waiting to see a show, it's such a shock you can't believe it for a few minutes. You think it can't possibly be true. Thank god you have your family around you so you can have a few moments to yourself and know the children are with them, I'll be praying for you all, take care

[Lolly68]

Thinking of you

[Littlefish]

Thinking of you all. What devastating news.

[ArcticRoll]

So sorry,what a terrible shock for you.

[pirategirl]

I am so very shocked and sad to hear your news, you must be in complete shock. I don't have anything constructive to say. I feel very fortunate to know the mumsnet is a place you would come for words of comfort.

xx

[ronshar]

I am so very sorry to read about the sudden death of your Husband.
It does put everything into perspective doesnt it.
Hold your babies close and draw strength from their unconditional love for you. They may not understand the details but they will both know something is wrong.
Thinking of you.

[TequilaMockinBird]

Thinking of you and your dcs.

So very

Deepest sympathies xxxx

[springflowerslapin]

Laura sweetheart - I am so desperately sorry for your loss x

[WendyWeber]

Such shocking news - thinking of you all

[ernest]

I just saw this and also wanted to send you me best wishes.I am so sorry. What a shocking thing to happen. Wishing you strength to get you and your lovely dc's through xxx

[seb1]

I am so sorry .

[Boco]

So sorry to hear this What a terrible thing to happen. Thinking of you and your family.

[dejags]

What a hideous shock for you. My thoughts and love are with you at this terrible time.

Strength to you.
Dejags
x

[SpookyMadMummy]

thinking of you all X

[mymama]

for you and your family. My thoughts are with you.

[IdrisTheDragon]

I am very sorry .

[startouchedtrinity]

So, so sorry. xxxx

[mistypeaks]

I realise you don't know me, but you have my heartfelt condolances and thoughts and prayers. I'm not a million miles away from you and would be there if you need. We're all (MNers) always here whatever the time of day. so very sorry.