Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

[Hattie05]

So they are only lump payments then? thats a shame!

Do you already have figures for tax credits etc? I'm sure you've already thought of these thing, but in case not - are you aware that many mortgage companies will allow you to have a payment break? Give them a ring and ask if you havn't already.

[Mummy2TandF]

Have started a new thread now, this one is too long

[beller]

Hi mumm2TandF

I remember feeling that way when my mum died...really hits you when everyone elses life goes back to normal,and yours never will
I really would like to pop over and see you, not sure what the best way of swapping dets is? I really am just round the corner (well 10 mins), so let me know.
Big hugs xxxxxxxxx

[Mummy2TandF]

Beller - my email is laura dot corrigan at virgin dot net, if you can email then maybe we could arrange something? Thanks