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Christmas hope - our safe haven thread for bereaved parents.

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shabbapinkfrog · 11/12/2011 13:54

Hope....for the bereaved parent; even at Christmas, one of the most painful times of the year, there is an essence of hope. Hope....it is hope that sustains us through the days of grief and anger and frustration and loneliness.

The hope that someday the pain of the deaths of our children will be eased. The hope that someday our smiles will be real.

So, it is that for each of you I would hope....peace, compassion, love, sympathy, understanding, sharing and listening. In the sharing of our grief with one another, and in the emotional support we give to one another, we receive and understand all of these gifts.

Remembering my precious sons....and all of your precious children at this difficult time of year.

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accidentprawn · 03/02/2012 17:39

oh lottie. hope you feel better soon.

Karma happy birthday for tomorrow!

karmathreefold · 03/02/2012 17:57

Thanks accident x

accidentprawn · 03/02/2012 18:03

your welcome!

how are you karma?

Whatevertheweather · 03/02/2012 18:10

Evening all!

Blizy have a lovely break away. Tyre blow outs are scary hope you're okay xx

Happy birthday for tomorrow Karma do you have any plans?

Sorry you're not feeling too good Lottie. Hope it improves soon.

Urgh, sick sick and more sick here. Been sick more this time than with K and E combined. Yuck!

karmathreefold · 03/02/2012 18:33

accident not too bad - how about you?

whatever sick - not nice. Some say that bad morning sickness indicates a boy, though I was most sick with DD1, so not sure on that

accidentprawn · 03/02/2012 18:45

not too bad. just so tired atm.

MiaAlexandrasmummy · 03/02/2012 23:10

Hi all, very quiet here tonight! Are we

a) conserving strength for karma's birthday party tomorrow
b) just too tired at the end of another week
c) out enjoying RL?

Me, it's been a big day. Meeting about a possible site for Mia's Wood was very promising. Then fell off a friend's horse. Got up again. Ate Chinese with DH and MIL. Found out something sad and amazing...

I learnt that Mia is saving other babies. Her safe birth, despite my vasa previa, prompted a rewrite of delivery procedures. Found out through a midwife friend of SIL. Makes me proud and sad at the same time.

shabbapinkfrog · 04/02/2012 08:38

Morning girls xx

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MiaAlexandrasmummy · 04/02/2012 08:45

Morning peeps. -7 here, brrr. Happy birthday karma!

karmathreefold · 04/02/2012 10:11

Thanks miasmummy another year older Sad

I read about the change in delivery procedures, very bittersweet for you I imagine. Hope you're OK after falling off the horse? Positive news about the wood xx

blizy · 04/02/2012 10:49

Mias- wow, what a legacy Mia has left behind! I can understand about you being upset though. Ouch at falling of the horse!

Karma- happy birthday! Hope you have a nice day. I'm sure Tamsin has sent you a birthday hug. X

MiaAlexandrasmummy · 04/02/2012 11:06

Yes, very bittersweet. karma didn't see the news about the change, any chance of sending through a link?

CheeseandGherkins · 04/02/2012 12:16

Baby Ella was born at 11.36 am weighing 6 pounds! She's in special care but doing well! Xx

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shabbapinkfrog · 04/02/2012 12:50

Awwwww welcome to the world little lady.....fantastic weight. Love, love, love her name. I can imagine the smile on your face right now. So delighted for you Grin Grin Grin xxx

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deemented · 04/02/2012 14:19

Squee!!! What wonderful news, Cheese!! I'm so glad she's here and safe and all is well! Sending you, Ella and your family much love x

and not a tiny bit jealous that you beat me to it!!

Flubba · 04/02/2012 14:33

Sorry to gatecrash your thread ladies (I read it from time to time) - am thrilled to bits to read your wonderful news cheese! Congratulations on baby Ella, beautiful name too :) :) :)

accidentprawn · 04/02/2012 14:47

congrats cheese! Beautiful name!

accidentprawn · 04/02/2012 16:22

Happy Birthday Karma!!!!

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accidentprawn · 04/02/2012 18:18

not long now dee
when is baby dee due?
Has anyone got snow where they are?

shabbapinkfrog · 04/02/2012 18:38

Has been snowing here since around 10am....it is still coming down hard. Just tried to get to the bin in the back yard and it is about 6 inches deep. OMG I hate the Winter.......hurry up Summer get a move on!!!

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karmathreefold · 04/02/2012 18:40

Aww congrats cheese delighted you've got your precious Ella, hope you're both home really soon - Feb 4th is a great day to be born Wink. Ella is such a lovely name xxxxx

accident thanks for birthday wishes. We've got some snow here, though it's a very unconvincing, a few meagre flakes... how bout you?

Went to the cemetery today (never thought that would be a b/day activity). Yet more babies - twin girls. That's four babies since November Sad

deemented · 04/02/2012 18:58

Baby isn't due til 25th Feb, accidentprawn, but she'll be born on Valentines day - i'm having an elective C-sec as she's breech and i don't have much waters so she won't turn.

accidentprawn · 04/02/2012 19:06

its snowing here! not thick though, prefer the summer though!