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Beyond the distant star, I wish upon tonight to see you smile, If only for a while, to know you're there.

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shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:08

Our thread to honour and remember our precious children who sadly are not 'physically' here xxxxx

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shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:10

The words of the Josh Groban song:-

Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for a while
To know you're there
A breathe away not far
To where you are.

xxxxx

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lottiejenkins · 04/10/2010 10:27
AbiAbi · 04/10/2010 10:34

Morning ladies Smile

Just popping my head round the door to show my continued support, and gratitude, to you all.

xx

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:35

Good to see you - I was determined to start a new thread - even if it meant talking to myself all day - something that happens quite regularly in our house Grin

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shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:36

Thanks for the link Lottie - I adore that song - so beautiful xxx

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AbiAbi · 04/10/2010 10:43

I'll keep popping in Shabs, can't have you getting lonely Smile

How are you? Hows Lewis?
xx

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:44

Im OK - slightly shell shocked but I'm OK

....and Lew? My minature Mick Hucknell? Grin He is wonderful xxxx

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AbiAbi · 04/10/2010 10:56

Lovely to hear Smile.. although I am sure that description does not do him justice! xx

lottiejenkins · 04/10/2010 11:04

Am glad i heard it and posted it originally

Heliantha · 04/10/2010 11:08

Hello

Can I plant my sunflowers again? Actually, what I'd like to do is give everyone a little sunflower (does such a thing exist?). I think we need things that smile at the moment :)

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 11:16

Helia - plant away my friend!!

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shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 11:18

...and, yes, Im sure little sunflowers exist. Think it is PPM who likes them - but dont quote me on that because Im struggling to remember my own name today Grin

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loopyloops · 04/10/2010 11:31

Ben Harper -

I'm leaving here on the morning train
and I will never see this world again
I've felt pleasure
and I have felt pain
and I know now
that I can never be the same

How I wonder why the world can be so cold
and if only good die young
then left with me cruel here to grow old
and I felt pleasure
an I felt pain
and I know now
I can never be the same

And if someday I find my peace of mind
I will share my wealth with all of human kind
I've felt pleasure
and I have felt pain
and I know now
that I can never be the same

So if the sun does shine or rain does fall
I give thanks I've had my sight to see through it all
and I've felt pleasure
and I have felt pain
and I know now
that I can never be the same

:) :(

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 11:33

Beautiful poem - thank you love xxx

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loopyloops · 04/10/2010 11:36

For some reason the live video makes it even more poignant, and the "double-edged sword" is particularly true in my case. :(

hazygirl · 04/10/2010 13:16

AFTERNOON GIRLSXXXX

thefirstmrsDeVere · 04/10/2010 14:02

Butterfly
As you danced in the light with joy,
love lifted you. As you brushed against
this world so gently, you lifted us.
T.C. Ring

I have it on my FB but just incase you havent seen it x

deemented · 04/10/2010 14:21

Lovely, lovely thread title, Shabbs.

woollyjo · 04/10/2010 14:23

Slinking in and out as I do on every new thread still here, still lurking.

deemented · 04/10/2010 14:24

Can i post this here? I saw it and thought it apt...

" When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of the great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance, and inevitably,
we will feel about us their arms, their empathy, their understanding and most of all, their love."

  • Helen Keller.
frasersmummy · 04/10/2010 14:35

well done shabs..

no Dee you cant post here...cos you said you werent going to be here for a while Grin

someone else said that too...let me think who that was ..oh yeah me!!!! Grin Grin

sorry maybe its too soon for flippant comments

Anyway seeing as my boy should have been born in the sprint can I plant some wee white snowdrops for him please??

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 15:16

Glad to be in your company again girls xxx

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travellingwilbury · 04/10/2010 15:24

Ok , what the buggery hell has been going on here ? I go off to real life for a couple of days and all goes tits up .

I can't face reading all the posts I have missed so would someone please give me a hint ?

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 15:33

TW will private message you in a little bit when Lew goes home....dont want to bring it all on here again!! xx

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travellingwilbury · 04/10/2010 15:40

Thanks Shabs xx

I am feeling wobbly , Daniel has got croup and it is horrible to hear him. I hate it when they are ill especially when it is anything to do with the chest .

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