Beyond the distant star, I wish upon tonight to see you smile, If only for a while, to know you're there.

[shabbapinkfrog]

Our thread to honour and remember our precious children who sadly are not 'physically' here xxxxx

Hi Ladies

I miscarried last night, went to the scan and nothing was there. I feel distraught yet strangely numb.

Oh mini I'm so so sorry to read this. I know nothing i can say will make anything any better, bur please know i am thinking of you. So much love xxx

mini , I am so so sorry , it is just so bloody cruel .

Be kind to yourself xx

Oh Mini - Oh sweetheart - come here while I give you a hug. Im so very sorry and wish I could help you.

I am sat here trying to find the right words and have decided that there are none.

I wish I lived closer to you but I am with you in spirit...my thoughts and love are with you xxxxx

TW I have pm'd you as I cant find the right words to post

mini..life is too bloody cruel isnt it?? I am so sorry words dont seem enough..

hey Ilike good to see you .. I sympathise on the feeling rough.. I hated being pregnant both times... I was soo ill. My body doesnt do pregnant well at all

mini I am so very sorry. Sending love to you and your husband. I have lit a candle for you. xx

mini so sorry ,thinking of you and hubbyxx

Mini I am so so sorry, that's terrible. Sending you lots of love and hugs xx

Mini I'm so sorry. Lots of gentle hugs from me too x

TW Love to you and your brother. Once the infection's under control, you'll have a better idea of his treatment but it's such a worrying time (()) Hope he's feeling better this evening

Thank you everyone. I don't think its really hit me, it all happened so quickly, a few days ago I had horrendous morning sickness and felt really pregnant and now I'm not.

FM - Thanks for PMing me, unfortunately I don't seem to have recieved it!

Hope everyone else is ok x

mini I am still here love to you, I don't know what else to say, sorry, just take of yourselves xxx

Morning girls. xx

Just had a quick scan at whats been happening so I apologise if i miss anything.
TW I hope your brother is ok soon
mini I'm so so sorry lots of gentle hugs
caz That tattoo is gorgeous!!!!!!!!! No wonder he wanted it too look like it will when its healed before allowing you to put a picture anywhere.

Just a little update from me: my abscence has been due to H and I separating all rather amicable atm but i dont want to see him and have as little contact with him as possible it confuses me. I tried repeatedly (from the day we split to he left) to get him to talk to me but he refused to. I'm ok with it though i think it is for the best I'm happier than i have been for a while.

Keeping you all in my thoughts xx

I'm so sorry Mini, it all must seem so overwhelming at the moment. It's just so bloody unfair.

I know it's not the same at all and I don't want to project how I felt onto you, but I think I understand your numb feeling.

The day after C's funeral, one of our beloved cats was brought back dead after an accident on the road. My first thought wasn't 'oh no, poor Scooby, I'll miss you, you poor thing you'll be so very missed', it was 'yep, that's about right'. It felt like being kicked when I was already down. I felt very numb about it, probably because I had just gone through the worst few days of my life ever and losing my cat just seemed to compound that. I never grieved for my cat and that is something I really regret.

As I say, I am NOT comparing your miscarriage to my cat, but I do think I know sort of how you feel.

Please be kind to yourself, I'll be lighting a candle for you, your dh, Malachy and your baby tonight xxxx

So sorry to hear about you splitting up with your (d)h Shelley. I don't know what to say, but please post here if it helps xxxx

I'm still sending those vibes to your db TW xxxx

Thanks ILike, it does seam to be for the best as odd as that sounds. I'm looking to the future with my gorgeous ds

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/bereavement/1088644-Flying-high-enjoying-their-wings-Remembering-our-precious-much-loved-children

New thread as promised. :) Hope it is ok!

Shelley I'm so sorry to hear about your separation. Wishing you lots of strength. We're all here to listen if you want us.

Shelley Good luck for the future, whatever you decide xxx

Morning all xx

Split - we've moved to our new thread my lovely... see link above....

thanks, found it!