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Beyond the distant star, I wish upon tonight to see you smile, If only for a while, to know you're there.

946 replies

shabbapinkfrog · 04/10/2010 10:08

Our thread to honour and remember our precious children who sadly are not 'physically' here xxxxx

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shabbadabbadingdong · 05/10/2010 22:30

I know what you mean love - poor kid....so young xxx

CazEM · 05/10/2010 23:36

Here.

I don't want to hash it all up again, so don't expect any replies to this. But felt I ought to say to you ladies that after much deliberation and soul searching I've deleted S from my FB. I don't know what I think or believe anymore if I'm honest, I know what I want to believe but I'm just not sure Confused :( So my sensible head has overruled on the matter. I'm feeling very vunerable. I hope it was the right and fair decision in the long run...

I'm glad we're settling down here again.

Quite a nice day today, we've done lots of walking. Finally starting to settle into being away, and I'm beginning to feel level again. Anxiety dropping for now...

Mini poor girl - such a young age.

Hope everyone is feeling ok. xxx

shabbadabbadingdong · 05/10/2010 23:42

Im OK - not quite right in the head, you understand!!! BUT Im OK xxxx

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 06:39

Morning girls xx

travellingwilbury · 06/10/2010 07:34

Morning xx

hazygirl · 06/10/2010 07:41

morningxxx

Minione · 06/10/2010 07:48

Morning all x

deemented · 06/10/2010 07:54

Morning my lovelies.

lavandes · 06/10/2010 08:10

good morning ladies, I'm here miss xx

zeno · 06/10/2010 08:49

Morning folks.

I'm being a numpty and can't find our previous thread to see the message from MNHQ that Lottie mentions. Help me anyone?

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 08:54

The whole thread has been deleted sweetheart....the message just said thats what they were going to do.

Good to see a decent turn out on here this morning!!

zeno · 06/10/2010 09:19

Sorry shabs, do you mean that our thread has been deleted? The one that Sassy started?

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 09:46

Yes love x

zeno · 06/10/2010 09:57

OK.

I am cross with MNHQ that our thread has been deleted.

Please advise...

I want to let them know I'm cross and upset about this but don't feel I should sully our thread with it.

Should I:
a) contact MNHQ direct
b) start a thread in bereavement about it
c) start a thread in site stuff about it

I'm leaning towards option (c)

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 10:05

Contact MNHQ I think. They asked what we wanted to do but with so much going on you more than likely missed the message. If you start a thread off it will probably attract all the gossip again and the 'what if's' and 'why what has happened' brigade.

xxxxx

zeno · 06/10/2010 10:18

OK. Last thing I want is to head the mob in our direction. Did we as a group choose to have the whole thing deleted then? If yes then I'll leave MNHQ alone of course.

travellingwilbury · 06/10/2010 10:26

I have sent you a pm zeno xx

everlong · 06/10/2010 14:22

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feedmenow · 06/10/2010 14:30

Hello all!.

Everlong - your thong has put a smile on my face - something I certainly need today!

Sorry to be a div, but why was a thread deleted and why would the mob head this way?

CazEM · 06/10/2010 15:50

Have some name changed or older faces or am I being dense?! Walked around a nature trail at Devils Bridge today.. Completely knackered yet my Dad is fine!!

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 16:53

Feedmenow - you really, really dont want to know. Grin If you really insist I will private message you after Hurricane Lewis has gone home.

I have just altered my name a little and Everlong comes and visits us but I think she is a lurker as well!! Wink

mumoverseas · 06/10/2010 17:46

hello ladies, I'm just popping in briefly to send you all love and best wishes and to say that hope you are doing ok after recent events. I was very touched to see that you'd re-planted the red roses for my brother, mum and dad from the old garden. Thank you so much for that dee. I know I'm not part of your special community but am touched that you have done that in memory of my missed loved ones.
Take care x

travellingwilbury · 06/10/2010 18:08

Hello all x
Daniel is on the mend (I think) still coughing but doesn't sound like a seal anymore . He did however cough himself sick last night . Fingers crossed he is ok tonight .

Harrys birthday tomorrow and he should be bloody 10 . Double figures and everything . How the buggery did that happen ?

shabbadabbadingdong · 06/10/2010 18:15

Nights are awful when your DC are ill.....I used to sit up with Matty night after night - he got asthma when he had a cold. He would cough till he was sick and then say 'Feel better now Mam!!'

Will light my candle tomorrow in honour of Harry. I will wait until Lew gets here - I always tell him who I am lighting the candle for and then we always have to have a rousing rendition of Happy Birthday from him Grin I'm not sure where the time goes but it is very scary xxx

everlong · 06/10/2010 18:16

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