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Vinted buyers who don’t hit everything okay

203 replies

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 14:17

AIBU to be really pissed off?!

I sold an item for £55. Not an insignificant amount of cash. Everything was packaged perfectly and she’s said there’s nothing wrong with the item but won’t press everything is okay! What’s the point?!

OP posts:
nomas · Yesterday 16:34

You’ve been selling without checking payments? Okaaaaay

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 16:35

MidnightMeltdown · Yesterday 16:32

No, you shouldn’t be chasing. It’s just plain rude to hassle people like that.

Surely you’re not that desperate for money that you can’t wait 2 days?!

If you count one message as hassling then sure

i need the money. Nothing wrong with that.

OP posts:
YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 16:35

Lucky you don’t need the money! I usually assume that people do.

namechangetheworld · Yesterday 16:36

To be honest, I don't think I've pressed that button in two years. Parcels often sit unopened on the kirchen counter/forgotten in my car for at least 48 hours afterwards, and I don't log onto Vinted every day.

I don't really see it as an issue. The money gets automatically released within 72 hours anyway, nobody is obligated to do it sooner. If someone is that hard up for cash relying on a notoriously unreliable selling platform like Vinted is a horrible idea. Dozens of things could (and do) go wrong.

Princessfluffy · Yesterday 16:36

I’d suggest that in your listing you say that you require buyers to hit the button not wait for the default period to elapse otherwise buyers are not unreasonable to just play by the Vinted rules on this

amylou8 · Yesterday 16:37

How long did you take to post it? I had someone post an expensive item out to me on the last possible day. I decided she obviously wasn't in a hurry for her money. Petty I know.

oohgoodcupofteanicky · Yesterday 16:37

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 16:28

But you do. You have no idea whether the buyer might be about to try something, I take all pictures and videos of me packing the item so I like to get them deleted asap. I ship everything within 24 hours so I think it’s a bit neck to be honest!

So it’s to appease your anxiety?

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 16:37

amylou8 · Yesterday 16:37

How long did you take to post it? I had someone post an expensive item out to me on the last possible day. I decided she obviously wasn't in a hurry for her money. Petty I know.

Less than 24 hours. I pass the lockers everyday.

OP posts:
YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 16:37

YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 16:35

Lucky you don’t need the money! I usually assume that people do.

That was aimed at the poster who said she has £987 sitting in her vinted account that she had no idea about, but whose post has no disappeared.

BanningTheWordNaice · Yesterday 16:41

Marroon · Yesterday 15:41

There’s a reason it’s not mandatory to go and confirm the order within a handful of hours.
If Vinted t’s & c’s bother you then don’t sell on the platform.
Sellers like to trot out the “it’s not Amazon” line when it suits them and then crack up when they’re paid within the time frame Vinted set out for them rather than instantly.

I’m not a seller - I only use it to buy, I just have manners but okay.

bugalugs45 · Yesterday 16:43

I don’t leave feedback ( as a seller ) for anyone that hadn’t pressed all is ok, petty yes but it makes me feel better 🤣.
I always check item over asap and press all is ok , 99% of the time within a couple of hours

MidnightMeltdown · Yesterday 16:44

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 16:35

If you count one message as hassling then sure

i need the money. Nothing wrong with that.

Personally, I’d find it irritating if someone messaged me as soon as I got the parcel. If I’m busy, I might not even open and inspect it for a couple of days.

Its not the buyers fault that you’ve got a problem with your finances. If they hadn’t bought it then you’d be getting no money anyway.

HarryStylesShorts · Yesterday 16:47

I rarely bother clicking everything is ok, it's only if I spot the notification and have a spare minute. I don't see it as an issue at all.

I sell on Vinted far more than I buy and don't even pay attention to whether buyers press it or not, the money all comes through either way whether it's one day or three. It's not worth getting worked up about surely?

Annabelle456 · Yesterday 16:49

Ugh this really annoys me too!! I always make sure I confirm everything's okay as soon as I possibly can.

theneighbourstolemyteacup · Yesterday 16:53

I think it's rude.

You have what you paid for, why can't the seller have his money?

likeitshard · Yesterday 16:56

Wow I do it as soon as I’ve checked the item. It’s never occurred to me not to!

MassOfInterstellarGas · Yesterday 16:58

I don’t mark everything as OK if there’s something that’s been a bit crap, like the seller took ages to post, or the item clearly needs to be washed etc.

TheDogsMother · Yesterday 17:05

I don't think I ever have but I am buying and selling small value items. I'm sure it's not critical for a few quid. I've never really noticed if buyers click everything is ok for the items I sell either.

Krevlornswath · Yesterday 17:07

I do it as soon as I've actually checked the item. It's "is everything ok" not "have you picked it up successfully. I know that doesn't strictly apply here but I do think expectations are unreasonable sometimes.

I do try to be prompt when it's possible but there have been several occasions when I've collected something but not then gone home or been able to properly look at it in the circumstances so it's had to wait until much later that day or the next day once, when I was working overnight.

I did used to open it asap and check it quickly so I could confirm but have stopped after doing this in poor light and quickly meant I missed some damage - some holes I only noticed when I tried it on and had already confirmed everything was fine so prevented myself from pursuing it.

sweetpickle2 · Yesterday 17:09

Mt563 · Yesterday 14:30

Sorry, too many plates spinning here. It auto accepts after a few days so I'll leave it to do that.

“Too many plates spinning” 😂

If you have time to open your parcel you have time to open the app and hit a button.

vintedannoyed · Yesterday 17:09

Krevlornswath · Yesterday 17:07

I do it as soon as I've actually checked the item. It's "is everything ok" not "have you picked it up successfully. I know that doesn't strictly apply here but I do think expectations are unreasonable sometimes.

I do try to be prompt when it's possible but there have been several occasions when I've collected something but not then gone home or been able to properly look at it in the circumstances so it's had to wait until much later that day or the next day once, when I was working overnight.

I did used to open it asap and check it quickly so I could confirm but have stopped after doing this in poor light and quickly meant I missed some damage - some holes I only noticed when I tried it on and had already confirmed everything was fine so prevented myself from pursuing it.

And I do totally understand this, but in this instance the buyer had confirmed it was all fine. Looking at her reviews it seems she’s a bad buyer and seller, so I got lucky!

OP posts:
PinkPanther50 · Yesterday 17:10

Unfortunately a lot of people are rude and lazy. It takes less than a minute to open the notification from Vinted and click everything is ok

Noshowlomo · Yesterday 17:11

This grips my shit! Sellers only get the money once that button is pressed. Otherwise you’ve got to wait a few days. Just press the button!

Notmycircusnotmyotter · Yesterday 17:12

People have things to do that isn't sitting on Vinted waiting for the query to pop up

YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 17:12

HarryStylesShorts · Yesterday 16:47

I rarely bother clicking everything is ok, it's only if I spot the notification and have a spare minute. I don't see it as an issue at all.

I sell on Vinted far more than I buy and don't even pay attention to whether buyers press it or not, the money all comes through either way whether it's one day or three. It's not worth getting worked up about surely?

Well I guess it is if you need the money quickly.
I’ve never sold on Vinted and only very recently bought some stuff for the very first time, but I clicked it as I assumed most people would prefer the money released to them sooner rather than later.