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AIBU to have little sympathy for prisoners during the heatwave?

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 11/07/2026 18:58

Metro article about prisoners and the heatwave, but if they behaved they would not be in prison ?

Im all for caring for humanity as a whole, but in terms of prisoners they did commit crimes and get locked up.

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 21:56

RoyalIris · 13/07/2026 21:53

You may find an entire judicial system unwilling to partake. To ‘train the right person’
you need the volunteer to begin with. Importing goods still requires companies to cooperate and an infrastructure to support in the UK. All these factors contributed to the abolition of the death penalty and are reasons for delay in countries that still do have it. That cat still has no bell.

Question how or why does it help society to let criminals that murder go free with potential to reoffend and potentially murder again ?

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RoyalIris · 13/07/2026 22:11

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 21:56

Question how or why does it help society to let criminals that murder go free with potential to reoffend and potentially murder again ?

Well that’s clearly not the case
is it? The alternative to capital punishment isn’t let them go free. That’s a debate about sentencing which is a whole different topic.

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:13

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 21:54

did i say any of that and if i did could you please quote me directly otherwise wow on your assuming you know what my thoughts are

”if uk does not have viable companies then im guessing like the arms trade there will be one or another country willing to sell their services and machines and equipment“

At some point it’s best to just admit you’ve been outclassed and walk away from a debate.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:19

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:13

”if uk does not have viable companies then im guessing like the arms trade there will be one or another country willing to sell their services and machines and equipment“

At some point it’s best to just admit you’ve been outclassed and walk away from a debate.

i may be out classed and ill admit that but what i dont agree with is when people use the Reinterpretation of my words and then try to say that's what i mean or i am saying without actually asking me eg if you said are you saying x etc

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Whammyammy · 13/07/2026 22:20

Spent most of the weekend in thr pool with my family/grandkids. We had fans in the rooms at night, cool drinks, al fresco dining, ice creams.... off on holiday for 2 weeks next week....oh thr joys of not being a criminal and having previous ruined other people's lives. Zero sympathy

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:20

*services does not auto mean doctors it can apply from maintance and operating of the machines, parts for the machines, etc a whole range of services

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iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:22

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:19

i may be out classed and ill admit that but what i dont agree with is when people use the Reinterpretation of my words and then try to say that's what i mean or i am saying without actually asking me eg if you said are you saying x etc

Yeah to be fair it’s not actually clear what you mean at all because your posts just don’t make sense anymore.

I’ve tried to engage in a meaningful conversation with you but you’re just not interested

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:26

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:22

Yeah to be fair it’s not actually clear what you mean at all because your posts just don’t make sense anymore.

I’ve tried to engage in a meaningful conversation with you but you’re just not interested

ok to help me understand how exactly am i ment to respond im not always good at following others points etc

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iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:29

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:26

ok to help me understand how exactly am i ment to respond im not always good at following others points etc

Why have you tried to start a serious debate if you can’t follow and respond to people?

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:34

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:29

Why have you tried to start a serious debate if you can’t follow and respond to people?

because im strange. and i dont think normally

basically im mostly Bentham/consequentialism with elements of Hobbes and realism vs iwasboredinbed who id guess is mainly Kant/deontological

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:35

Im ;

40% Hobbesian realism (strong state, order, security)
30% Retributive justice (crime deserves punishment)
20% Consequentialism (judge policies by whether they protect society)
10% Situational psychology (drawing on Zimbardo's work to acknowledge that environments can shape behaviour)

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:36

In short Individual rights matter, but they should not prevent society from protecting innocent people from dangerous offenders.

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:38

The justice system exists primarily to protect innocent people. If legal rules obstruct that purpose, we should at least question whether they're fit for purpose.

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superchick · 13/07/2026 22:40

Most prisoners have already been failed by society - terrible parenting, lack of education, abused and neglected as children, fell through the cracks in children's homes and youth offending services. I'm not sure leaving them to boil alive is particularly helpful for rehabilitation.

randomchap · 13/07/2026 22:40

So now you've done an online ethics/morals quiz and are copying the results here?

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:43

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:34

because im strange. and i dont think normally

basically im mostly Bentham/consequentialism with elements of Hobbes and realism vs iwasboredinbed who id guess is mainly Kant/deontological

Yeah I think your first sentence nails it.

Nice attempt at a troll post but you’ve just embarrassed yourself

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:43

randomchap · 13/07/2026 22:40

So now you've done an online ethics/morals quiz and are copying the results here?

I don’t really know what’s going on anymore

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:44

randomchap · 13/07/2026 22:40

So now you've done an online ethics/morals quiz and are copying the results here?

yes because i wanted to understand my thinking because as iwasboredinbed made the analysis that i dont know shit so i tyried to understand my thoughts better with thinkers like kant, hobbes etc the old philosophers

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superchick · 13/07/2026 22:45

Whammyammy · 13/07/2026 22:20

Spent most of the weekend in thr pool with my family/grandkids. We had fans in the rooms at night, cool drinks, al fresco dining, ice creams.... off on holiday for 2 weeks next week....oh thr joys of not being a criminal and having previous ruined other people's lives. Zero sympathy

I hope none of your grandchildren ever fall on hard times or reach for drugs and alcohol to cope with life's problems. Any one of us could find ourselves in difficulties one day. Prisoners arent a separate species- they are humans with emotions and needs, just like your perfect family.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:47

superchick · 13/07/2026 22:40

Most prisoners have already been failed by society - terrible parenting, lack of education, abused and neglected as children, fell through the cracks in children's homes and youth offending services. I'm not sure leaving them to boil alive is particularly helpful for rehabilitation.

but thats even assuming they even what to be rehabilited to begin with

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OonaStubbs · 13/07/2026 22:47

superchick · 13/07/2026 22:40

Most prisoners have already been failed by society - terrible parenting, lack of education, abused and neglected as children, fell through the cracks in children's homes and youth offending services. I'm not sure leaving them to boil alive is particularly helpful for rehabilitation.

Most prisoners have failed society by not fulfilling their obligations.

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:48

OP, I think it’s probably best you ask MNHQ to shut this one down.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:54

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 22:48

OP, I think it’s probably best you ask MNHQ to shut this one down.

why ? its been a respectful discussion and ive not broken any rules so why ?

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iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 23:08

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 22:54

why ? its been a respectful discussion and ive not broken any rules so why ?

I mean if you want to continue embarrassing yourself that’s fine too

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:18

iwasboredinbed · 13/07/2026 23:08

I mean if you want to continue embarrassing yourself that’s fine too

in the pursuit of knowledge and understanding and trying to learn even if im making a daft show of my brains then why should i be embarrassed for trying to debate, learn and yes make errors

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