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AIBU to have little sympathy for prisoners during the heatwave?

350 replies

PenelopeJoanSterling · 11/07/2026 18:58

Metro article about prisoners and the heatwave, but if they behaved they would not be in prison ?

Im all for caring for humanity as a whole, but in terms of prisoners they did commit crimes and get locked up.

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BoredZelda · 12/07/2026 20:52

ImPamDoove · 11/07/2026 19:11

Rather a puerile viewpoint.

Prison is the punishment. They still have the right to be treated humanely. The prison service has a legal and ethical duty to ensure their health and safety, and that includes care in heatwaves.

I agree. It’s easy to decide “they” must be treated a certain way, but one day you or someone you love might be one of “them”. The justice system you want for them must be one you’d be prepared to face. They are doing the time, that is their punishment.

OonaStubbs · 12/07/2026 21:10

RoyalIris · 12/07/2026 19:40

This week I’ve thought particularly about two circumstances, one was people in flats and the other, prisoners.

Re: prisons, I am unsure why so many posters think this is about AC being fitted. Nor why they think this is about ‘comfort’ as opposed to basic health and safety; death due to heat stroke is possible. Prisons are problematic in heat waves as there is little a prisoner can do to modify their environment or move to a more favourable one. As a few people have already said, prison is the punishment not heat exhaustion.

as Dostoevsky said The degree of civilization in a society can be judged by entering its prisons.

Dostoevsky was an author of fiction. Why do so many people take that quote in particular as being some inalienable truth?

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 21:20

The media and people who push the prisons are like hotels.
Funnily enough I've never stayed where it's
Constant noise
Sexual deviant,rapist,nonce ,murders,robbers etc as fellow guests
Constant risk of danger
Drug abuse
Fights
Potting
Kettleing
Oh and not being able to go out +A whole lot more.
Really must check trip advisor as I must be getting something wrong.

RoyalIris · 12/07/2026 21:21

OonaStubbs · 12/07/2026 21:10

Dostoevsky was an author of fiction. Why do so many people take that quote in particular as being some inalienable truth?

It’s an insightful comment on humanity. Dickens had quite a few too. Looking at penal systems around the world, this quote resonates with me.

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 21:42

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 21:20

The media and people who push the prisons are like hotels.
Funnily enough I've never stayed where it's
Constant noise
Sexual deviant,rapist,nonce ,murders,robbers etc as fellow guests
Constant risk of danger
Drug abuse
Fights
Potting
Kettleing
Oh and not being able to go out +A whole lot more.
Really must check trip advisor as I must be getting something wrong.

Prisons full of criminals, and dangerous individuals
and not being able to get out

What a shocking concept 😂

Northernlassie123 · 12/07/2026 21:53

They are still human beings and are so are the staff.

HRTQueen · 12/07/2026 22:30

Netcurtainnelly · 12/07/2026 18:56

Some people are never coming out of prison. They have a whole life sentence for vile and horrible crimes . Rehabilitation is not on the agenda here. It's keeping the public safe from them and locking them up for the vile way they have behaved.

Do you really care about people like Varley.Roy Whiting and Mark Bridger, Wayne Couzens etc out there.
I doubt they are worried about you.
They are in there of their own free will. There is always a choice.
Nobody has to rape or murder anyone.

Not only are they vile they are thick to think they won't be caught when we live in a world of CCTV and advanced technology.

If they murdered your child would you still be as understanding. Thought not.

There are a very few people on whole life sentences. For the vast majority part of sentencing is about rehabilitation it benefits society that less people return crime that leads to a return to jail not just the person themselves

Having longer prison sentences for sex offenders and those violent in particular towards children I fully support. The are a small percentage of prisoners, other violent prisoners can often through robust rehabilitation can change their lives why would we not want that. It’s better for society We are never going to have a time when all murderers are give full life sentences

I hate the argument if this was your child. That I could possibly even begin to imagine the strength of feeling they feel, I could not even begin to imagine their emotions (why would I want to think about this) all I know it is something so horrific I can’t possibly put myself in their position but I can empathise and I do and just because I do does not mean I would agree with their point of view, but would know when not to express my point of view.

I find this line of argument distasteful

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 22:31

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 21:42

Prisons full of criminals, and dangerous individuals
and not being able to get out

What a shocking concept 😂

The media pushing it's hotel like ..well it's not is it.
It's the last place you'd want to stay.

croydon15 · 12/07/2026 22:33

ShutupLwren · 12/07/2026 03:28

It’s ok in my humble opinion to have sympathy for lots of people in prison during this time. The women in there who finally snapped after years of DV, the undiagnosed young fella that got into crime as a teen because he was vulnerable. There are lots of people in prison whose lives have been a cluster of absolute chaos and they are just perpetuating the cycle.
It’s ok to feel bad for those people. Systemic failures.

Then you have murderers and rapists and nonces and it’s also ok to not care how impacted they are, because they’ve not cared about harming others for their gratification. They’re the ones it’s hard to muster sympathy for. The people who are in prison who can’t be rehabilitated and will harm others again. It’s ok to not be concerned about their welfare.

This - it depends very much on the crime committed whether l have sympathy or not, anyone who has hurt a child for example deserves to suffer, l have no sympathy at all.

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 22:45

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 22:31

The media pushing it's hotel like ..well it's not is it.
It's the last place you'd want to stay.

I wouldn't want to stay in some of our hospitals or even some of the schools in this country

Prisons being unwelcoming places full of criminals? well duh!

NullaEffugium · 12/07/2026 22:57

This is pure silliness. I don’t understand why there is this aversion to aircon. The planet is getting hotter. It’s not going to cool off in our lifetimes, we should just put aircon everywhere.

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 23:13

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 22:45

I wouldn't want to stay in some of our hospitals or even some of the schools in this country

Prisons being unwelcoming places full of criminals? well duh!

🙋

OonaStubbs · 12/07/2026 23:19

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 12/07/2026 21:20

The media and people who push the prisons are like hotels.
Funnily enough I've never stayed where it's
Constant noise
Sexual deviant,rapist,nonce ,murders,robbers etc as fellow guests
Constant risk of danger
Drug abuse
Fights
Potting
Kettleing
Oh and not being able to go out +A whole lot more.
Really must check trip advisor as I must be getting something wrong.

All those problems are caused by the prisoners themselves, not by the prison as accommodation.

PenelopeJoanSterling · 12/07/2026 23:37

croydon15 · 12/07/2026 22:33

This - it depends very much on the crime committed whether l have sympathy or not, anyone who has hurt a child for example deserves to suffer, l have no sympathy at all.

for that type of crime only one suitable punishment, death sentence, and if any one disagrees with that, please explain your reasoning

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HRTQueen · Yesterday 01:55

PenelopeJoanSterling · 12/07/2026 23:37

for that type of crime only one suitable punishment, death sentence, and if any one disagrees with that, please explain your reasoning

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I do not believe is state sanctioned murder

What if the wrong person is executed

Why should someone like Ian Brady, who wanted to die, be allowed his wish rather than his full punishment of having his life controlled and knowing this until the day he dies

JuvenileBigfoot · Yesterday 02:01

The prison I work in is a remand prison. Most of the prisoners haven't had a trial yet, they just didn't get bail.
It's boiling in the cells. Honestly horrendous.
YABU.

ShutupLwren · Yesterday 02:01

PenelopeJoanSterling · 12/07/2026 23:37

for that type of crime only one suitable punishment, death sentence, and if any one disagrees with that, please explain your reasoning

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It’s hard to not agree. Children are the most vulnerable in society, the idea of them being hurt is unimaginable and it’s not surprising that people want child killers dead. It’s quite complicated from what I’ve seen and read to put things in place to protect kids (not that the uk bothers) without it becoming more dangerous to the lives of children.
I don’t agree with chemical castration unless the person it’s happening to wants it also. Purely because it’s been proven that unless the desire to not want to harm kids is there, then the child would be more at risk of a more brutal sex attack. Without being to gratuitous if a penis can’t be used, something else will be. Basically it’s more harmful for the child if the predator still wants to hurt them.
I watched a guy a few weeks back on TikTok who studied crime and punishments and he said that if child predators knew they’d be killed for their crimes, that would make the child far more vulnerable to death so if they were abusing a child then they’d likely kill that child at some point to try to remove the risk of being caught for abuse. So whilst the sentiment of “touch kids and die” sounds like it’s solving problems, it’s also creating the likelihood of more children being killed.
I don’t have the answers and I can’t say that I didn’t wish it was that easy, you harm a child in that way you get death because let’s be honest, nobody wants child abusers around. They can’t be rehabilitated, they’re just a drain on society, but we have to find a solution that doesn’t impact kids safety even more than keeping these freaks alive.

I don’t particularly want the state to choose who lives and who dies, it’s a very dangerous slope, but it’s also disingenuous of me to say that when we’ve had the recent prison killings of Ian Huntley or Ian Watkins, I didn’t think good riddance. I felt sorry for both their mums, who didn’t deserve such evil sons, but that didn’t remove me being pleased they were no longer ever getting the chance to still harm victims families by being constantly in the news etc, I was glad they’re just dead and I can’t lie.

OrsinoAndOlivia · Yesterday 02:05

When I was in the US I visited Yuma prison on the Mexico border. Now THAT was hot. It’s in a desert.

I think people with no lived experience of the type of people who end up in prison can bleed out their hearts for the poor lambs or think it could happen to anyone but the truth is, it’s bloody hard to make a prison sentence stick in the UK these days and those who get one don’t deserve public money spaffing up the wall on air con over and above hospital patients or care home residents!

FFSItsTooHot · Yesterday 02:14

I totally get you. Last week, when the temperature was touching 35 degrees,a male friend of mine messaged me and asked me if I was going to the coffee shop today. I said not today,I can't face the bus journey in this heat. His response was how do think chefs in boiling hot kitchens manage,or prisoners locked in their cells for 23 hours a day? I said well I can sympathise to a degree with chefs, I certainly couldn't do it,but they chose to go into that profession, knowing how hot kitchens can get. But as for prisoners, sorry I have zero sympathy. As they say if you don't want to do the time, don't do the crime!

iwasboredinbed · Yesterday 06:19

PenelopeJoanSterling · 12/07/2026 23:37

for that type of crime only one suitable punishment, death sentence, and if any one disagrees with that, please explain your reasoning

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Absolutely incorrect.

The death penalty isn’t a deterrent - look at America where people still happily murder others despite the death penalty. It’s also incredibly expensive - you don’t just get to sentence them to death and they’re killed the next day. Everyone on this planet has the absolute right to life, it’s one of our human rights. So therefore anyone would purports to be taking it away legally must go through rigorous legal processes before they can. So they pay for appeal after appeal and it takes years. Where is that money coming from?

Also add on the fact that you then need to ask NHS doctors to take time away from their current duties to do it. Would you feel comfortable seeing a doctor knowing they’ve taken away a human life the day before? How does it reconcile with their oath to do no harm? Who’s funding the extra money for these doctors?

The death penalty doesn’t work.

susiedaisy1912 · Yesterday 07:24

The death penalty may not work as a deterrent but it might give the victims family some sort of closure.

iwasboredinbed · Yesterday 07:33

susiedaisy1912 · Yesterday 07:24

The death penalty may not work as a deterrent but it might give the victims family some sort of closure.

How? Through years and years of protracted legal cases that just drag out the suffering?

The Death Penalty Information Centre states that the death penalty fails victim’s families. https://deathpenaltyinfo.org/policy-issues/victims-families/statements-from-murder-victims-family-members

BlueFahrenheit · Yesterday 07:53

Prisoners have shelter, food, electricity and a bed.

It's people experiencing homelessness I feel sorry for.

Spidey66 · Yesterday 11:36

Being in prison and having their freedom removed is their punishment. Not being boiled alive!

also many prisoners are on remand and haven’t been convicted of a crime yet.

PenelopeJoanSterling · Yesterday 15:16

iwasboredinbed · Yesterday 06:19

Absolutely incorrect.

The death penalty isn’t a deterrent - look at America where people still happily murder others despite the death penalty. It’s also incredibly expensive - you don’t just get to sentence them to death and they’re killed the next day. Everyone on this planet has the absolute right to life, it’s one of our human rights. So therefore anyone would purports to be taking it away legally must go through rigorous legal processes before they can. So they pay for appeal after appeal and it takes years. Where is that money coming from?

Also add on the fact that you then need to ask NHS doctors to take time away from their current duties to do it. Would you feel comfortable seeing a doctor knowing they’ve taken away a human life the day before? How does it reconcile with their oath to do no harm? Who’s funding the extra money for these doctors?

The death penalty doesn’t work.

then we change the system, one appeal and then take care of business, Question - why should someone that takes a life on purpose have more rights than the victim ?

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