“All the trimmings” - to find this quite vile?

[Penelopefly]

I’m away with my boyfriend at the weekend. In the course of messaging about our respective days, I’ve mentioned I am starting to pack. He said ‘remember some nice lingerie with all the trimmings’. I queried what trimmings meant - he clarified stockings and suspenders.

I feel like a piece of meat!

I was getting ready with my red cabbage recipe.

@Idontjetwashthefucker Anything over 18.5 degrees.

All the trimmings = Sunday dinner.

LTB his culinary skills are shit.

Yeah yo need pigs in blankets and gravy

I would quite look forward to some roast potatoes and parsnips, and some stuffing balls.

Not enormously erotic though.

Well op is a third of the way there
She's got the pig.
His choice of words were piss poor.

Well I can't say that would bother or surprise me.

He actually likened you to a carvery dinner. Poor guy won’t even know he did it either

I’ve never quite understood the use of props if the sex you’re having is already hot and good. What does a pair of stockings add to it that some nice classy skims type underwear wouldn't? Just seems a bit cringey and Benny hill to me.

Buy him some cringey sexy underwear, for him to wear.

He’d be spending the weekend on the trip alone if he’d messaged me that, what a repulsive little man. I decide what I want to wear and when I wear it, I dress for myself and not anyone else. If you choose to go take a mankiki and lay it on the bed for him.

That's insulting to pigs.

And broccoli 🥦

This is what has always hacked me off about blokes who expect or anticipate their women will “dress up!” It’s so crude.

Tell him to pack his thong and anything else you can think of! I’m afraid Im out of touch but you get the picture… ?

Frankly, I’d plan to dump him.

I’d be ditching the bloke and going for a roast.
It’s the expectation that you’ll dress up and perform. What effort is he making?

Yuck

Either party in a relationship can ask for “props”, can’t they?

This wouldn't bother me.

He's only having a bit of fun.

Surely everyone brings nice lingerie on a weekend away.

Gross. You are not a roast dinner. I think that would be the ick for me

I love a good red cabbage recipe.

Tell him you will if he will, and you expect to see his stockings with the black line down the back 😆

Seriously though, this would give me the ick. He sees you as an object.

It's a bit bossy and controlling though isn't it? Unequal

Tell him to make sure packs a range penis decorations for the event

Take a a strap on.
This would cancel the weekend for me - he's mistaken you for an escort service.

Really? Asking your GF to pack some nice things for a w/e away is controlling?