Our au pair just left after nearly a year with us.
We tried to be nice to her and include her in family events. I gave her very nice, personalised Christmas gifts. We made a special dinner on her birthday.
She didn't even acknowledge the Christmas gifts and never gave us so much as a card.
I know that she loves our daughter, and she has always been nice to our daughter.
Today she didn't even say goodbye to me when she left our home at the end of her contract - just sent a text.
AIBU to wonder why this is and to feel sad that our au pair apparently didn't like us?