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Haven't seen DH in clothes since Monday

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Whereareyourclothes · 28/06/2026 18:52

My husband doesn't like the heat which means that for every day this week during the heatwave, we made an agreement that I'll been the one doing errands, nipping to the shops, and doing both morning and afternoon school runs. In return, he will ensure chores are done and cook dinner.

He works from home so therefore has had no need to leave the house.

Except, he's spent nearly a week walking around in just a pair of pants. No other clothing. He at least changes those pants daily (and sometimes twice a day), but I have not seen a t shirt on him all week nor a pair of shorts. I can't remember the last time he wore a pair of trousers.

I get that it's hot but i'm sick of the sight of his bare chest and legs. He is also bald so he looks like a giant newborn wearing a nappy.

He has somehow managed to do every work Teams call this week with the camera off.

We've also had quite a few deliveries this weekend, largely his, which I've had to run and open because he runs and hides from the window (while giggling) in case they clock he's only wearing pants.

I've asked him to put clothes on but it's fallen on deaf ears.

It's only 23 degrees today, AIBU to insist he puts some clothes on?

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Disturbia81 · 07/07/2026 23:18

I love seeing my partner naked or in boxers, fancy him SO much and we have loads of sex. I still wouldn’t want to see him without a top on all week. Clothes look sexy. Keep the mystery. Add variety.

HiEarthlings · 10/07/2026 13:37

Whataflippincircus · 28/06/2026 19:03

True enough. When you live with someone though, compromises have to be made.

It's not as if she hasn't seen it all before though! She's not just a roommate, she's his wife, so why shouldn't he wander around the house in the bare minimum? It's bloody hot! She sounds like a real joy hoover....

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