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AIBU to think parents drinking heavily on a kids rugby tour is inappropriate?

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phoenix72 · Yesterday 10:34

I am currently on my DS's (11) weekend long rugby tour. It's the third day and I am thoroughly pissed off with alcohol being the focus rather than the kids or the rugby. The evening activities have been focused around drinking games (yesterday this was after a beach barbecue where the majority of parents were drinking) and the worst was the 'kangaroo court' last night where any perceived 'silly behaviour' or slight 'infraction' over the past rugby season by a parent resulted in taking a shot or downing a drink. Parents were penalised for their own actions and for their kids. By about 7pm most adults were so drunk they couldn't find their caravans, let alone their kids.

Most parents have been too hung over to spend time with the kids in the day or do any kid-friendly activities. In the afternoons and evenings they have been too drunk to look after their kids. This is not a one off - my DS has been to tour with three different rugby clubs and each one has been the same when it comes to tour.

AIBU to think this behaviour is highly inappropriate and irresponsible, and that it teaches the kids that getting completely wasted several nights in a row is acceptable?

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Ventress · Today 09:55

Ours were like this too. I didn’t tend to go , it was more “lads and dads” but the alcohol was insane.

I remember just seeing the coach on the way down to Bristol one year which was full of boxes of beer! I shuddered. DS (18yo) survived (but doesn’t drink!).

TheGreatDownandOut · Today 10:07

I am really surprised at the number of people disagreeing with the OP on this. It sounds fucking horrendous, even if there weren’t kids there with them. Being bullied in to taking shots?! Seriously?? Sounds like my worst nightmare. I don’t mind a drink, I don’t mind getting a bit tipsy but this is a whole other level of bad behaviour!

Hassell · Today 10:20

You back now?

Hassell · Today 10:20

Did they win the tournament??

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