Why why why are they like this!!!

[Hellofrances]

My boyfriend stayed overnight at my house for the first time on Wednesday.

We both had yesterday off so had a lazy morning watching tv in bed.

He broke wind really loud and grabbed my head and forced it under the covers, I couldn’t move from under them for about 10 seconds.

He thought it was hilarious, I told him I’m a 37 year old woman and don’t appreciate that.

I think it’s the fact we’d not long been intimate and he was being really jokey.

I told one of my friends who found it amusing and said it’s a sign he’s comfortable around me which is good, but I don’t agree!

Be careful.

Absolutely gross

What?? Nope. I wouldn’t be seeing him again. Im
a grown woman and that’s grim.

A Dutch oven? Absolutely disgusting.

First and last time, presumably you've told him the relationship is over?

Juvenile bastard. Put itching powder in his briefs .

He forced your head under the covers? That's not amusing and it's not a joke. 10s is a long time when someone is forcing you using brute force. I think it's shocking and very concerning.

Christ!! My vagina would spontaneously seal itself shut 🤢

Just get rid. Repulsive. 🤢

That’s absolutely disgusting and I’d never see him again. Fucking rank.

You need to throw this one back.
His behaviour is vile.

Nope. Just leave. Don't do a revenge joke because thst will just tell him that what he did is acceptable.

I'm not one to say ltb usually but yeah, I would leave. Using physical force on other adults unless it's in self defence is assault.

No that’s not on. Personally I’d see it as a dealbreaker but if you’re going to stick around in this relationship then make sure he knows that you won’t tolerate this kind of thing again (it’s particularly physical force used against you that’s concerning), then make sure you stick to it.

It's not a joke.

The relationship would be over for me.

Apart from being disgusting it is very concerning he physically restrained you and forced you to do something against your will.

Your friend sounds like an idiot too

Urgh

I'm sorry but this would be the ick big enough to end the relationship if it were me. Just no.

Ah, the Dutch oven. Funny from an outsider's perspective, gross for the recipient. I think he's comfortable being with you and felt playful, and maybe just a little immature. Don't write him off yet.

This sounds like a fairly new relationship, so I would end it over this. For me, it would just show a fundamental lack of compatibility.

This!!!

They? I’ve never had a man do that!

They are not all like this - thank goodness 🤢

I think hes comfortable around you, but that would give me the ick. Long as he doesnt do it again - i would give him another chance.

That would be the end for me. Forcing your head under the covers and holding it there? No boundaries, he is dangerous.

There’s comfortable and then there’s being an immature twat. I do genuinely think I’d get the ick over this. Unless he was extremely apologetic and is solid gold in everything else, I’d tell him to jog on.