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Why why why are they like this!!!

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Hellofrances · 26/09/2025 09:37

My boyfriend stayed overnight at my house for the first time on Wednesday.

We both had yesterday off so had a lazy morning watching tv in bed.

He broke wind really loud and grabbed my head and forced it under the covers, I couldn’t move from under them for about 10 seconds.

He thought it was hilarious, I told him I’m a 37 year old woman and don’t appreciate that.

I think it’s the fact we’d not long been intimate and he was being really jokey.

I told one of my friends who found it amusing and said it’s a sign he’s comfortable around me which is good, but I don’t agree!

OP posts:
dh280125 · 28/09/2025 18:57

Dump him. No class.

Bikergran · 28/09/2025 18:59

The fact that he forcibly restrained you in any situation is a massive red flag. This is NOT a joke. Dump, block, make sure he doesn't have a key.

pomers · 28/09/2025 19:15

Grim. Disgusting, he’s seeing how far he can push you, this will likely escalate. Block now

Slipperhead · 28/09/2025 20:45

Can you even begin to really contemplate the arrogance and entitlement of any man to do such a thing?
He has abuser written all over him.
Be very wary OP.

Lostinmiddleage · 29/09/2025 09:22

Absolutely gross! Been married 20 years and thank goodness my husband doesn't
act like that! Definitely ick.

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