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My dog walker and the builder having an affair?

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ThatJadeQuail · 04/07/2025 23:22

Pretty much what it says in the title!

I have a dog walker that comes in and walks my dog 4 times a week, she has walked my dog for 5 years and is brilliant, a lovely woman who always goes above and beyond. She is married.

I have a pet cam at the front of my house I see what time she comes and goes each day. But I don’t really look at it and it only sees the front of the house in living room not the back rooms.

I currently have a builder here who is working on my extension and has been for a month. He’s also done other work on my property and I’ve always trusted him.

ive noticed my dog walker has been staying here longer than usual after she leaves the dog (I am at work) and I’ve noticed the builder (who is also married) bringing up the dog walker in a lot of conversations.

then today my dog walker stayed for 1.5 hours after the time of walking my dog and on my camera I can definitely hear “noises” that are possibly sex noises but its hard to tell because camera is picking up from a ropm
or two away.

what do I do? Do I bring this up with them? Do I leave it as it’s none of my business? Do I say I know and to stop using my house? Or have I just let my imagination run wild and it could be completely innocent? It’s a very awkward thing to bring up!

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LBFseBrom · 13/07/2025 23:44

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 13/07/2025 18:47

It is NEVER acceptable for two people WORKING FOR YOU, to have sex in your home! Their being married is beside the fact!

We don't know for certain they were bonking. I see the story has got into Yahoo news :-), I wonder if builder and dog walker will see that and recognise themselves.

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 14/07/2025 05:55

Such a negative nancy.

CreationNat1on · 14/07/2025 12:13

Yikes, a reminder of how viral everything is these days.

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 14/07/2025 21:38

I mean, I haven't used Yahoo since the 90s, so I sincerely doubt it.

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