My dog walker and the builder having an affair?

[ThatJadeQuail]

Pretty much what it says in the title!

I have a dog walker that comes in and walks my dog 4 times a week, she has walked my dog for 5 years and is brilliant, a lovely woman who always goes above and beyond. She is married.

I have a pet cam at the front of my house I see what time she comes and goes each day. But I don’t really look at it and it only sees the front of the house in living room not the back rooms.

I currently have a builder here who is working on my extension and has been for a month. He’s also done other work on my property and I’ve always trusted him.

ive noticed my dog walker has been staying here longer than usual after she leaves the dog (I am at work) and I’ve noticed the builder (who is also married) bringing up the dog walker in a lot of conversations.

then today my dog walker stayed for 1.5 hours after the time of walking my dog and on my camera I can definitely hear “noises” that are possibly sex noises but its hard to tell because camera is picking up from a ropm
or two away.

what do I do? Do I bring this up with them? Do I leave it as it’s none of my business? Do I say I know and to stop using my house? Or have I just let my imagination run wild and it could be completely innocent? It’s a very awkward thing to bring up!

The 'petcam' can be retitled, 'The Discovery Channel'.

Very much doubt the builder is in an hourly rate, he will have quoted for the job

😁 Oh yes, please put secret cameras all over the house OP.

you just can't get the staff these days...

Perhaps OP can negotiate a 69% discount

so what does the dog make of it?

the dog walker is paying him?

The builder and dog walker might do it doggy style so they can both watch x files…

I swear Ive read this exact same thread a few years ago.

That’ll save me some time…what happened!

If they’re having sex in her house though that’s gross isn’t it?

Yes 100%, I may be tempted to get evidence as leverage in case the builder’s work isn’t up to scratch, it’s hard to get them back for those snagging jobs 😄

I'd be more worried about where!! In my house - yuck! There's no good options, bed - awful, kitchen - yuck! I wonder if they're just getting on really well, maybe I'm naive but jumping straight to sex seems a stretch, could they be having a cuppa and a chat, am I incredibly tragic assuming this, possibly. I just find the idea they'd only met in passing and then suddenly one day deiced to shag in both their clients house a bit of a leap...
Either way, drop some innocent questions to both, very gently, and hopefully they either get the hint or do it elsewhere

These people aren't your friends. They are your 'employees'. Are they both doing their jobs adequately?

I mean if you really want to say your doorbell camera picked up sex noises while they were both in the building and you want a full explanation from both of them? Maybe a PowerPoint presentation on the subject?

I personally wouldn't. For fear of them both thinking I was a nutter and withdrawing their dog walking and building services.

Tell her the dog is constantly humping your leg, ask her if she’s noticed and tell her you cant imagine where he’s picked that up from!

Definitely this!!!! 🤮

I wouldn't give a shit if they were having an affair but they could at least have some damn respect and have their shagging sessions somewhere else and not under your roof!!! You pay them for a service it doesn't give them any right to be using your home to sneak around

I’d probably watch till they’re inside then drop in. I wouldn’t really want two random people sneaking around and sleeping together in my house whilst I was out tbh. What if they’re doing it on the dining table? 😂 plus what if it costs you more in the long run as he’s not actually working in the time he’s meant to be?

This has reminded me of the fluffy sex blanket thread 😆 my DH is a builder so I can’t say I relish hearing all these ‘builder shagging someone in my house’ tales!

Well as long as builder isn’t charging you a daily rate, and having his sex breaks when he should be working. Because then you’re paying for his sex sessions…..

That’s what I thought too. This one is even more intriguing though as they are both working for OP, the last one was just the builders fancy piece just going round for a shag in the shed.

Did they know each other before OP? If not that’s quite speedy work isn’t it?? Four dog walks a week for the last month and now they’re at it in your downstairs loo. Blimey.

It wasn't me by Shaggy

Same. I'm not easily offended but I'd be really pissed off if people started shagging in my bed. It's rank!

Presuming they are both over the age of consent and it is your builder not your hubby then what is there to do or say as its all based merely on supposition on your part.

😂