My dog walker and the builder having an affair?

[ThatJadeQuail]

Pretty much what it says in the title!

I have a dog walker that comes in and walks my dog 4 times a week, she has walked my dog for 5 years and is brilliant, a lovely woman who always goes above and beyond. She is married.

I have a pet cam at the front of my house I see what time she comes and goes each day. But I don’t really look at it and it only sees the front of the house in living room not the back rooms.

I currently have a builder here who is working on my extension and has been for a month. He’s also done other work on my property and I’ve always trusted him.

ive noticed my dog walker has been staying here longer than usual after she leaves the dog (I am at work) and I’ve noticed the builder (who is also married) bringing up the dog walker in a lot of conversations.

then today my dog walker stayed for 1.5 hours after the time of walking my dog and on my camera I can definitely hear “noises” that are possibly sex noises but its hard to tell because camera is picking up from a ropm
or two away.

what do I do? Do I bring this up with them? Do I leave it as it’s none of my business? Do I say I know and to stop using my house? Or have I just let my imagination run wild and it could be completely innocent? It’s a very awkward thing to bring up!

In the immortal words of George Michael “ sex is natural sex is good, not everybody does it but everybody should”. However if the building work is unsatisfactory that’s another matter.

And to think I always taught the children that porn is not like real life. It grossly underestimates the difficulty of finding a decent plumber builder.

😂

Well if you read the post properly she doesnt know this for sure does she ? So uptight 🤣😂

Another day, another sex noises thread.

Is OP sure it’s not hedgehogs

I'd be checking my cameras more often i love a secret 🙊

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Op said they're both married

threenaancurrywhore · Today 18:00

Is OP sure it’s not hedgehogs

😂

The issue for me is are they doing it on your sofa, in your bed, on the kitchen table, etc etc. 🤢

Ask the builder if he knows anything about house security cameras as yours is making funny noises and you need it fixed.

I'd be worried the builder was billing you for a full day when he's not working all of it. Maybe ask for an interim bill and see if he knocks off shag / chat time.

Stop spying and checking up in them - that's really an awful thing to do.

Or you could ask the dog.

I’d put an indoor camera in the ro being used. Decorated with a smiley face and when they come in next play music down the camera feed.

Our builder was here for a few weeks, he was a plumber and tile fitter. I overheard him take a couple of calls that I thought weren't from his wife. Told husband I thought he was having an affair.

A couple of weeks later I had to visit a client. Parked up waiting for them to return home. Suddenly realised that the range rover in the layby was the builders. Steamed up windows. Eventually they both got out and were making out as they said goodbye. I lay flat across the seats praying he wouldn't recognise my car. He eventually drove off.

Luckily they couldn't meet at our house because husband and I came and went from home a lot.

I never said anything to him. But learnt a few years later his wife had divorced him. Apparently there had been a number of affairs.

I'd say nothing to either of them.

The theme to “Bob the Builder”

No it isn't, if they are doing it in OPs home then they can't complain, you poltroon.

We’ve just read the first chapter.

This is funny. I’d casually on purpose drop into conversations with them both your pet cams. Leave it there.

Or foxes?

Drifts off into a happy mist of MN nostalgia

Tbh, unless you're married to one of them, say nothing. The fact you've mentioned that you know she was at your house for 90 minutes is probably more than enough to ensure they go shag elsewhere.

If they are not scaring the dog then I don't see your problem!

@ThatJadeQuail Unlikely. The dogwalker won't have known the builder long enough to have any sort of attraction.