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Neighbour asking for money

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Redbird3 · 23/02/2025 16:08

It all started a few months ago. Next door neighbour messaged me on Facebook and asked if I could bank transfer her £10 and she would knock on with the cash. I get on with her so I said yes.

Ever since it’s got to the point that she is asking every day. If not every day then every other day. I have started to say no as I do feel like she is taking advantage. When I don’t reply she then messages DH. There’s been times where DH has transferred her money on the promise that she’ll come round with it asap but it’s been next day.

Last night around midnight she messaged me asking for £20. I was just getting in bed so I didn’t reply. She messaged again around 12:20 as I was dropping off to sleep which woke me up. Then around 12:30 she called me on Facebook.

I think it’s getting a joke now but DH disagrees and doesn’t see the problem. A couple of nights ago she messaged DH, he sent her £10, then she messaged again for £20 which he sent her, then again 10 minutes later asking for another £10!

AIBU in thinking this is just pure cheek?

OP posts:
BexAubs20 · 26/02/2025 09:39

Something odd is going on here and you need to be careful! I’d just say “sorry our bank has flagged all these bizarre transactions so we are unable to help you anymore” you could get your bank frozen for money laundering. She’s definitely into something odd, drugs/ gambling and your best off out of it!

ThisZanyPinkSquid · 26/02/2025 14:37

Is husband having an affair with her?

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