F**king hats in restaurants

[TomAllenWife]

Is my new irritation!!!!

Stayed at a naive hotel last night, at breakfast this morning, two separate men wearing caps for in the restaurant .

On holiday in the summer (boiling hot) men had to wear long trousers for dinner, no shorts, but you could turn up in a baseball cap 🤔

When did this become acceptable?
I resist the urge to knock it off their heads?
I don't know why it makes me so irrationally angry either (peri)

Is it just me?

Hats don't bother me, but fucking anything in public is a no no!

I wouldn't notice or care to be honest

Why on earth does it matter?

I don't think I've ever dined in an innocent restaurant before? 🤣

I can't get worked up by caps unless it's black tie, especially at breakfast

I'm not confident I'd even notice.

I love s black tie breakfast

DH keeps a cap on in public to hide medical scaring.

It isn't all fashion.

Getting worked up about clothing is irrational and bizarre

But either way, I'm far more interested in what's on my plate than what's on people's heads.

You're just being naive 🤣

Caps should only be worn in cynical, world-weary restaurants. It’s right there in Debrett’s.

Your hotel is definitely naive if it thinks the patrons won't be fucking their hats at breakfast

I’d have to agree, Debrett’s certainly advise against it, daaahling.

Why does it matter? Those outdated ‘rules’ of society need to go- so many serve no purpose apart from to look down on others

@TomAllenWife

you stayed at a naive hotel???

I couldn't personally give less fucks about what other people wear to breakfast, if asked I guess I'd prefer caps over women in very little bed wear.

seems weird you can wear caps, but not shorts. But wouldn't bother me.

what a weird thing to get yourself so worked up about.

Naive hotel, that allows hats in restaurants? I'm intrigued.

You dont know whats going on in peoples lives so butt out. My son wears a baseball cap pretty much 24/7 he has trichotillomania so if he doesnt wear a hat he pulls his hair out and ends up with bald spots and sores.

Some men are very self conscious of their hairline. It wouldn't bother me OP, you should watch your blood pressure.

Wouldn't notice, more than one exclamation mark on the other hand..

I really can't see why anyone would be angry about this.

You’re unreasonable. Maybe they’re insecure about hair loss? Maybe it’s comfortable? Maybe that’s just their style choice.

I take issue with people showing more of their body than is socially appropriate (coming down to breakfast in a mankini for example) but by all means cover as much of your body as you want. Unless we’re talking top hats blocking your view of a stage at the theatre or something then I think hats are an entirely personal matter. Talking about knocking it off their head is outrageous.

Yabu , definitely a you problem, why do you care so much? Plus a lot of men wear hats because they are balding/receeding, it isn't always a fashion accessory.

DH would wear his cap to breakfast as he’s self conscious about his bald spot. He wears a cap whenever he can get away with it. I don’t know why it would bother someone else.

Do all head coverings trigger this reaction, or just hats?

Lets hope you never holiday in a Muslim country.

I'm peri-menopausal, but that’s an extreme thing to get worked up about.

You'd have a point if it was pyjamas.