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To think no teacher is affirming animal/moon/object genders

263 replies

Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 13:13

Surely no teacher in the UK would or could affirm a child who claimed to be a cat or a moon or any other sort of animal or object - eg letting them wear non-uniform, eat from bowl, disrupt learning with neo-pronoun requests. Just nonsense. This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.

I’ve also seen posters on here claiming their kid/cousin’s kid/neighbour’s goat breeder’s Auntie Sue’s best friend has first hand knowledge of this, and again I call bullshit. Bullshit. Any posters who say it’s not bullshit, get off here and write to Gillian Keegan, who explicitly requested examples of batshittery in schools at a recent select committee hearing, and name the school, and write to your local MP and ofsted too. But I think it’s just bullshit and teacher bashing.

YABU: I believe teachers ARE affirming cat/moon/anything genders

YANBU: I don’t believe any teacher would affirm an animal or object gender.

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that.

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Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 18:00

I’m taking the total silence to mean IANBU 😺

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LunaNorth · 23/06/2023 18:02

You’re wrong, and I know this first hand.

BoohooWoohoo · 23/06/2023 18:03

I think that they are probably affirming genders (Be kind !) but because the number is so small (a few out of 100s of thousands of teens), hardly anyone knows a school where this actually happens.

missmollygreen · 23/06/2023 18:04

YABU, simply because there is no way you can know what every teacher in the country is doing

FrippEnos · 23/06/2023 18:06

I know of several teachers in my school that are affirming genders, the problem with your poll is that it is far too polarised in the options.

DaisyWaldron · 23/06/2023 18:06

It does sound a lot like those people who once taught (or whose kid was in a class with, or whose SiL taught etc) a girl called La-Sha, pronounced Ladasha.

PicturesOfDogs · 23/06/2023 18:08

They are, my daughter has told me about the ‘furries’ in her school, who go around wearing cat ears etc.
Not to mention the recording of that teacher calling her students ‘despicable’ or whatever it was

AlisonDonut · 23/06/2023 18:10

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that

If you can identify as the opposite sex and teachers have to affirm, then you can identify as the moon and the teachers still have to affirm. Them's the rules.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 23/06/2023 18:11

It absolutely is happening

OvertiredandConfused · 23/06/2023 18:12

I know a 14-year-old who is at school with someone who identifies as a cat and is allowed to do so

Teachingteacher · 23/06/2023 18:13

No cats or animals at my school thankfully. But plenty of requests in the middle school and high school for pronoun and name changes. All from female students wanting to identify as non-binary or male. All are aged between 13-16 years old.

maddening · 23/06/2023 18:14

Affirming trans genders is bad enough and once you go non binary it is only a hop skip.and a jump to the other made up shite that is gender ideology that is being lapped up by naval gazing teens

yogasaurus · 23/06/2023 18:15

Yabu, it’s going on. Not cats and dogs in particular, but so much gender nonsense.

So much class time wasted too. Also it’s becoming a trend to announce your gender and expect the class to sit and listen, I blame TikTok. It’s creating a generation of narcissists

Rumplestrumpet · 23/06/2023 18:15

I think it's just the logical conclusion of gender affirming isn't it? A girl says she FEELS like a boy, teachers confirm that she IS a boy and tells others that, despite the logic and science proving the contrary, they have to recognise her AS a BOY. So why not a cat or the moon?

BigPeople · 23/06/2023 18:16

I have sat through gender awareness training in a school where we told as if it were absolute fact that ‘there are 73 genders’.

The lunatics have taken over the asylum. If you don’t believe it, you obviously don’t work in education!

Thelnebriati · 23/06/2023 18:17

YABU, this is the latest ''Look! a squirrel''.

A teacher told pupils they are despicable for knowing there are only two sexes. That is happening in schools.

BigPeople · 23/06/2023 18:17

we WERE told

Bromptotoo · 23/06/2023 18:18

OK, so where in the UK are pupils who self ID as animals being allowed to do so and treated as though they are cats, dogs, horses or whatever?

ErrolTheDragon · 23/06/2023 18:19

This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.
Unfortunately it seems to be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible teachers. Even more unfortunately there seem to be (some) teachers feeding bullshit to gullible kids.

Bromptotoo · 23/06/2023 18:20

Rumplestrumpet · 23/06/2023 18:15

I think it's just the logical conclusion of gender affirming isn't it? A girl says she FEELS like a boy, teachers confirm that she IS a boy and tells others that, despite the logic and science proving the contrary, they have to recognise her AS a BOY. So why not a cat or the moon?

But has it happened??

Clymene · 23/06/2023 18:20

You're wrong. There is a kid in my child's year who identifies as a baked product. Teachers have apologised to her for referring to her as a young lady.

It's fucking idiotic but then so is gender ideology

Lookingfurther · 23/06/2023 18:20

BigPeople · 23/06/2023 18:16

I have sat through gender awareness training in a school where we told as if it were absolute fact that ‘there are 73 genders’.

The lunatics have taken over the asylum. If you don’t believe it, you obviously don’t work in education!

There are nearly 2000 genders now https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Gender_Identities

Gender Identities

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Gender_Identities

crumpet · 23/06/2023 18:22

Whatever the teachers might believe, I can easily, in this current climate, believe that they would be too scared to challenge

ThatOnePlease · 23/06/2023 18:25

I think YANBU, and if this has happened or is happening, it's a handful of extreme cases.

Problem is, once you agree to affirm an identity at odds with material reality, there's no logical line to draw on what's a step too far.

Different race or ethnicity? Why not? It's no more impossible than insisting you can change your biological sex.

So how do you draft a coherent policy that says, you can change sex and must be always and only treated as your chosen sex - even though that is impossible in reality - but you can't change your ethnicity or your species for legal purposes?

If we have to believe people are who they say they are, then we have to believe that men can truly be women, a girl can be a cat, that Ollie London can be Korean. It's all the same.

ThatOnePlease · 23/06/2023 18:28

Lookingfurther · 23/06/2023 18:20

There are 8+ billion genders, as it is simply another word for 'personality'. We can never know how someone else is experiencing a concept as nebulous as gender.

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