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To think no teacher is affirming animal/moon/object genders

263 replies

Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 13:13

Surely no teacher in the UK would or could affirm a child who claimed to be a cat or a moon or any other sort of animal or object - eg letting them wear non-uniform, eat from bowl, disrupt learning with neo-pronoun requests. Just nonsense. This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.

I’ve also seen posters on here claiming their kid/cousin’s kid/neighbour’s goat breeder’s Auntie Sue’s best friend has first hand knowledge of this, and again I call bullshit. Bullshit. Any posters who say it’s not bullshit, get off here and write to Gillian Keegan, who explicitly requested examples of batshittery in schools at a recent select committee hearing, and name the school, and write to your local MP and ofsted too. But I think it’s just bullshit and teacher bashing.

YABU: I believe teachers ARE affirming cat/moon/anything genders

YANBU: I don’t believe any teacher would affirm an animal or object gender.

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that.

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PrincessHoneysuckle · 23/06/2023 20:35

@BellaTheDarkOverlord Grin

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:35

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:32

I did listen to it. I heard them asserting their right to their own beliefs about sex and gender. A belief that Forstater proved was worthy of respect in society. The teacher tried to browbeat them into retracting their beliefs as though they were despicable. They are not. They are protected beliefs and they are shared by the majority.

So you heard that the teacher was addressing their views on gender - not about cats.

StephanieSuperpowers · 23/06/2023 20:35

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:29

Sex and gender are two different things. No one is saying you can change your chromosomes.

But you can totally grow a cervix, so why not?

And if teachers are all over the fact that you can't change sex, why are so many toilets and sports unisex?

DdraigGoch · 23/06/2023 20:36

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:22

Their belief is that trans people don't exist.

Have you got a recording where they said that? Or can you even infer it from what the teacher said?

No, they didn't say anything of the sort.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 23/06/2023 20:37

Is this a secondary thing? No cats as of yet at the primary inwork at and I wouldn't recognise a dc as a cat if they "presented" as one.Ridiculous.

strawberry2017 · 23/06/2023 20:38

School near me has 3 that identify as dogs and bark in class.
Utterly ridiculous

ExtraOnions · 23/06/2023 20:39

…but that recording is nonsense, and has been seized by the right-wing media as part of the “culture war”. At no point does the teacher refer to anyone referring to themselves as a cat , there is no evidence that anyone in that school refers to themselves as a cat, the only people who mention cats are eye girls that made the recording - which is a small excerpt from a longer conversation, that we were not party to .. the sole purpose of which seemed to be to get “likes” on Tik-Tok

https://bylinetimes.com/2023/06/22/dead-cats-and-transphobic-lies/

Dead Cats and Transphobic Lies – Byline Times

The political and media firestorm over a school girl claiming to identify as a cat, turns out to be a story 'too good to check'. Byline Times has spoken to a witness

https://bylinetimes.com/2023/06/22/dead-cats-and-transphobic-lies/

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:39

DdraigGoch · 23/06/2023 20:36

Have you got a recording where they said that? Or can you even infer it from what the teacher said?

No, they didn't say anything of the sort.

The student argued that gender is determined by biological sex - “if you have a vagina you’re a girl and if you have penis you’re a boy. That’s it”.

So according to that student, there is no such thing as a trans person.

Perhaps you should listen to it yourself, so you know what you're arguing about.

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:40

ExtraOnions · 23/06/2023 20:39

…but that recording is nonsense, and has been seized by the right-wing media as part of the “culture war”. At no point does the teacher refer to anyone referring to themselves as a cat , there is no evidence that anyone in that school refers to themselves as a cat, the only people who mention cats are eye girls that made the recording - which is a small excerpt from a longer conversation, that we were not party to .. the sole purpose of which seemed to be to get “likes” on Tik-Tok

https://bylinetimes.com/2023/06/22/dead-cats-and-transphobic-lies/

Glad someone has actually bothered to take in what was said.

Clymene · 23/06/2023 20:41

But it's true @Begsthequestion

Humans can't change sex. This isn't controversial or revolutionary. It's basic science

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:41

Isn't it ironic that the people claiming that the existence of transpeople is being denied are the very people denting the existence of transcats...

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:41

Clymene · 23/06/2023 20:41

But it's true @Begsthequestion

Humans can't change sex. This isn't controversial or revolutionary. It's basic science

Who said it wasn't?

Gender is a different matter however.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:41

*denying

whereaw · 23/06/2023 20:42

@Begsthequestion what is gender?

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:42

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:41

Isn't it ironic that the people claiming that the existence of transpeople is being denied are the very people denting the existence of transcats...

Odd post.

Brefugee · 23/06/2023 20:42

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

why do you want it banished to the naughty step?

Lots of women don't identify as feminists and don't read the threads on FWR. But if you have a child at school, wouldn't you want to know this?

you can hide the thread, or just ignore it if you don't want to to read it

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:43

whereaw · 23/06/2023 20:42

@Begsthequestion what is gender?

Google is your friend.

Perhaps when you've learned the basic definitions of words we can enter a reasonable discussion.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:43

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:42

Odd post.

Why odd? Can you not follow the logic?

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:43

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:43

Google is your friend.

Perhaps when you've learned the basic definitions of words we can enter a reasonable discussion.

You mean like the definition of woman? Which some people are trying to change to include men who feel like a woman?

whereaw · 23/06/2023 20:44

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Circe7 · 23/06/2023 20:44

It may well be less harmful for someone to identify as a cat than the opposite sex in that “gender affirming” surgery probably has more complications and long term consequences than sticking a tail on someone would.

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:45

Look certain posters don't know anything about the topic ... or do and are playing silly buggers as my DF would have said.

To return to the point of the OP, teachers are being forced to affirm situations that they know are untrue. To go back to the atheist analogy - they can see the bread - they just don't believe it's their saviour. It's time the teaching unions supported them so they can say that in classrooms without being vilified and hounded from schools.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 23/06/2023 20:46

@strawberry2017 please tell me you're joking

EdgeOfACoin · 23/06/2023 20:47

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:41

Who said it wasn't?

Gender is a different matter however.

Then why do trans people change the 'sex' marker on their birth certificates?

Why are people of the male sex allowed to compete in the sports for people of the female sex if they identify as women?

Why do trans people take cross sex hormones?

I agree that sex is different from gender (and I'm not convinced that everyone has a gender, including myself) but it's the trans rights activists who conflate the two.

DdraigGoch · 23/06/2023 20:47

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:39

The student argued that gender is determined by biological sex - “if you have a vagina you’re a girl and if you have penis you’re a boy. That’s it”.

So according to that student, there is no such thing as a trans person.

Perhaps you should listen to it yourself, so you know what you're arguing about.

If I was to say that cats have four legs, would you respond by saying "so you don't believe that three-legged cats exist?"

Of course three-legged cats exist, that doesn't stop cats being quadrupeds.