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To think no teacher is affirming animal/moon/object genders

263 replies

Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 13:13

Surely no teacher in the UK would or could affirm a child who claimed to be a cat or a moon or any other sort of animal or object - eg letting them wear non-uniform, eat from bowl, disrupt learning with neo-pronoun requests. Just nonsense. This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.

I’ve also seen posters on here claiming their kid/cousin’s kid/neighbour’s goat breeder’s Auntie Sue’s best friend has first hand knowledge of this, and again I call bullshit. Bullshit. Any posters who say it’s not bullshit, get off here and write to Gillian Keegan, who explicitly requested examples of batshittery in schools at a recent select committee hearing, and name the school, and write to your local MP and ofsted too. But I think it’s just bullshit and teacher bashing.

YABU: I believe teachers ARE affirming cat/moon/anything genders

YANBU: I don’t believe any teacher would affirm an animal or object gender.

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that.

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ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:12

nothingcomestonothing · 23/06/2023 20:03

You do know it's not compulsory to read or post on threads which aren't to your liking, right?

Yes.

Nothing stopping me from expressing an opinion. You do know it's not compulsory to object to people doing that, right?

SeaSaltAir · 23/06/2023 20:14

AlisonDonut · 23/06/2023 19:12

Can I ask how many schools you surveyed in this detailed analysis of yours? Did they all respond to your survey request and how long ago did you collate this data?

All schools asked and all schools responded today. It’s pretty conclusive. Hopefully you’re still identifying as someone with eyes so you can read this.

Lammveg · 23/06/2023 20:14

Part of me thinks if they are affirming it, it's to try and stop people from complaining/calling them something-phobic...more hassel than its worth.

The children doing this are, in my opinion, attention seeking and by going along with it they're drawing less attention to it iyswim...sort of blasé about it.

I don't think they'd be giving food bowls etc though.

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

SunnyEgg · 23/06/2023 20:05

True. For some reason people can’t stay away enough not to post that. They can hide the thread instead

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:15

If they're letting boys into girls toilets and changing rooms why would they not give cats cat bowls and litter trays?

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:16

Transcats are cats.

Ywudu · 23/06/2023 20:17

2 cat children in our secondary.
What would you like teachers to do? Go along with it which is seen as accepting children can be cats or tell them they are a child and get fired. I feel sorry for the teachers.

whereaw · 23/06/2023 20:17

I agree that transcats are cats. It just makes sense on every level.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:19

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

Oh gosh yes. We really shouldn't allow this kind of discussion in an open forum.

War is peace. Freedom is slavery. Ignorance is strength.

Solidarity Big Brother.

SunnyEgg · 23/06/2023 20:19

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

I mean so what if you do

Other people are responding if it’s a rehash for you just avoid

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:22

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:10

They didn't deny the existence of anyone. They asserted their right to their own beliefs about sex and gender as established in the Forstater case.

Their belief is that trans people don't exist.

whereaw · 23/06/2023 20:22

I'm sorry, I really don't get the problem. If someone identifies as a cat, that's what they are.

I know a family who adopted a cat recently but didn't even consider a transcat. I was appalled.

They have it really hard and lots of vets won't even take them on as patients.

It's like a genocide really. No other word for it.

Thedogscollar · 23/06/2023 20:26

And they wonder why teachers are leaving, never mind pay and conditions without all this utter madness to deal with.
Soon we will have classes full of cats. Meow😹

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:27

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:22

Their belief is that trans people don't exist.

That's a misrepresentation.
If you take an atheist to a communion service, do they deny the existence of the bread? No. They can see the bread exists but they don't believe in transubstantiation - they don't believe the bread is the body and blood of Christ.
No-one is denying transpeople exist. It's just that the majority don't share transpeople's beliefs about gender.

Lindy2 · 23/06/2023 20:27

Some teachers were practically falling over themselves to affirm my ASD daughter as a boy. This was despite us specifically and clearly explaining why she wasn't ready to make a decision like that and not giving permission. They did it anyway.

I guess I should be grateful DD is still human.

The Government information on this has taken too long. As soon as we have an opportunity to join a group legal action against what has been allowed to happen in schools, we will.

StephanieSuperpowers · 23/06/2023 20:27

It is indeed difficult to imagine that there ux sn adult anywhere agreeing with teens if they claim to be cats.

A few years ago, it would have been just as difficult to imagine teachers falling over themselves to say that people can definitely change sex.

Must say, I would like to understand how the second improbable scenario is fine but the first utterly outrageous?

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:29

StephanieSuperpowers · 23/06/2023 20:27

It is indeed difficult to imagine that there ux sn adult anywhere agreeing with teens if they claim to be cats.

A few years ago, it would have been just as difficult to imagine teachers falling over themselves to say that people can definitely change sex.

Must say, I would like to understand how the second improbable scenario is fine but the first utterly outrageous?

Sex and gender are two different things. No one is saying you can change your chromosomes.

Begsthequestion · 23/06/2023 20:30

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:27

That's a misrepresentation.
If you take an atheist to a communion service, do they deny the existence of the bread? No. They can see the bread exists but they don't believe in transubstantiation - they don't believe the bread is the body and blood of Christ.
No-one is denying transpeople exist. It's just that the majority don't share transpeople's beliefs about gender.

If you listen to the conversation, the students did indeed say that trans people don't exist, and that your genitalia determines your gender, of which they said there are two.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:31

There are two sexes and genitalia determines sex in 99.9% of cases.

AlexandriasWindmill · 23/06/2023 20:32

I did listen to it. I heard them asserting their right to their own beliefs about sex and gender. A belief that Forstater proved was worthy of respect in society. The teacher tried to browbeat them into retracting their beliefs as though they were despicable. They are not. They are protected beliefs and they are shared by the majority.

Moopsi · 23/06/2023 20:32

They did not say "trans people don't exist". They said that girls have vaginas and boys have penises. That's it.

Leastsaidsoonestscrewed · 23/06/2023 20:32

Greenpotatosoup · 23/06/2023 13:13

Surely no teacher in the UK would or could affirm a child who claimed to be a cat or a moon or any other sort of animal or object - eg letting them wear non-uniform, eat from bowl, disrupt learning with neo-pronoun requests. Just nonsense. This must be kids taking the piss and feeding bullshit to gullible journos.

I’ve also seen posters on here claiming their kid/cousin’s kid/neighbour’s goat breeder’s Auntie Sue’s best friend has first hand knowledge of this, and again I call bullshit. Bullshit. Any posters who say it’s not bullshit, get off here and write to Gillian Keegan, who explicitly requested examples of batshittery in schools at a recent select committee hearing, and name the school, and write to your local MP and ofsted too. But I think it’s just bullshit and teacher bashing.

YABU: I believe teachers ARE affirming cat/moon/anything genders

YANBU: I don’t believe any teacher would affirm an animal or object gender.

I understand there are strong views on here about transgender issues. My AIBU is not intended to be about that.

Of course they aren't but you'll get lots of people here earnestly telling you it's a slippery slope, etc etc.
And they act completely shocked if you point out this is the exact same gameplay the homophobes use: " if we allow same sex marriage people will end up marrying animals".

DdraigGoch · 23/06/2023 20:33

ilovesooty · 23/06/2023 20:15

I could. I didn't want to.

I suspect this thread will be an excuse to rehash all the stuff from the last one, and I would like this stuff to stay in Sex and Gender discussion quite frankly.

And yet here you are, bumping it and making sure that it appears in "threads I'm on". Probably in active too. Whereas if you'd just hidden or ignored the thread (or even reported it if you thought that MNHQ should consider moving it) you wouldn't keep seeing it pop up.

Merrilydancing · 23/06/2023 20:33

Bloody hell, we’d have had a field day with this when we were teenagers and i went to a nice school.

Can you imagine, today Tom identifies as a cat, Jerry as a mouse and Pluto as a dog and then we could have an almighty fight! Or blame Pluto for eating our homework.

Complete madness not to think that teenagers are doing this to take the piss.

DdraigGoch · 23/06/2023 20:34

Ywudu · 23/06/2023 20:17

2 cat children in our secondary.
What would you like teachers to do? Go along with it which is seen as accepting children can be cats or tell them they are a child and get fired. I feel sorry for the teachers.

I'd sooner risk disciplinary over this, than capitulate and pretend that Jane really is a cat.