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To think the misogyny directed at Madonna is grim

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Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:06

Obviously Piers Morgan is a monumental arse but his attitude is typical of the misogynistic abuse directed at Madonna. She’s doing a world tour of her 40 years of greatest hits. Mick Jagger, Elton John etc are all also still touring into their 70’s and 80’s and that’s fine as they are ‘legends’ but Madonna, arguably one of greatest female artists ever is tragic and gets loads of abuse for how she dresses, what she wears, how much Botox she has, etc etc.

Total and utter misogyny.

To think the misogyny directed at Madonna is grim
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bellac11 · 18/01/2023 20:08

I have no time for that man but you know that Jagger and John have both had huge amounts of ridicule heaped on them for various things over the years, their appearance, their behaviour and their love lives in Jaggers case. John has also been ripped to shreds about his relationship with his mum like its anyones business.

Devoutspoken · 18/01/2023 20:10

So it's just plain ageism then, not misogyny?

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:13

@Devoutspoken eh? Am using them as a comparison. Older men touring = ok, older women = tragic and embarrassing apparently. Double standards

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ReamsOfCheese · 18/01/2023 20:14

Her attitude to normal female ageing is a product of internalised misogyny. That's tragic.
I don't think it's misogynistic to point that out.

ArseInTheDogBowl · 18/01/2023 20:14

Mick Jagger and Elton John haven't posted pics of themselves all over Instagram with their arses sticking out from under a bed have they.

It's nothing to do with the tour, it's to do with her bizarre behaviour

ExtraOnions · 18/01/2023 20:14

I just love her … growing old disgracefully, and good on her.

There is ageism and misogyny.. and the awful view that post-menopause women should not be sexual (some people really can’t get their heads around the facts that women in the 60s, 70s & 80s enjoy sex)

May she spend many happy years annoying the patriarchy

Emmamoo89 · 18/01/2023 20:15

I don't like her

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:16

@ExtraOnions yes totally. Few comments on here clearly think she isn’t ‘behaving’ how women should behave as they age either!!

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HotDogJumpingFrogHaveACookie · 18/01/2023 20:16

When Mick Jagger is trying to look 25 and is getting his tits out on stage, the criticism may be the same.

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:18

Jesus, the absolute state of some of the comments on here too. So fucking what if she wants to get her tits out on stage or flash her bottom. Who says she can’t?

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CaptainMyCaptain · 18/01/2023 20:18

ReamsOfCheese · 18/01/2023 20:14

Her attitude to normal female ageing is a product of internalised misogyny. That's tragic.
I don't think it's misogynistic to point that out.

Agree.

StrawberryAnnie · 18/01/2023 20:19

I agree, there is misogyny directed and Madonna. It really doesn’t compare to the criticism male artists get.

Piers Morgan wouldn’t dare use the same language when discussing men, and invite others to pile on.

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:20

Her attitude to normal female ageing is a product of internalised misogyny. That's tragic.
I don't think it's misogynistic to point that out

@ReamsOfCheese so how exactly should she be ageing? Who is anyone to tell her what she should do with her face or how she should age?

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SimonRiley · 18/01/2023 20:20

I don't necessarily believe it is the touring that he's talking about.

Probably more the copious amounts of plastic surgery to try and hide her age. The fact that she puts pictures of herself all over social media that are filtered to death or she's naked in them. The fact that she hangs out with her young daughter all of the time to 'look cool'. Dating men young enough to be her (grand) son.

If a bloke did that, you'd surely think they were having an old age crisis, wouldn't you?

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:22

@SimonRiley She can do what she wants with her face, she can filter her photos and she can most certainly hang out with her daughter. It’s the double standards she is judged by that make me want to vomit.

who the fuck is anyone to tell her how to age?

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ArseInTheDogBowl · 18/01/2023 20:22

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:16

@ExtraOnions yes totally. Few comments on here clearly think she isn’t ‘behaving’ how women should behave as they age either!!

Nope. Nothing to do with her age. I think the same of the exhibitionists and attention seekers on love island.

I don't see how getting her arse and tits out is sticking it to the patriarchy. Or filling her face with so much filler she no longer looks like herself. It plays into their hands IMO.

I really hoped she'd go in the other direction and not cave to the pressures to mess up her face.

dovelove · 18/01/2023 20:23

It astounds be that people are still shocked at Madonna's antics. Did they really expect her to grow old gracefully?

I think she's fantastic. Always been a big fan. And I hope she continues to push boundaries and be her true self till her dying day.

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:23

@ArseInTheDogBowl but it’s up to her. You clearly have some seriously judgemental views about how women should behave.

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Theluggage15 · 18/01/2023 20:24

Cher still tours, Dolly Parton still tours, it’s got nothing to do with her being a older female singer, all to do with her bizarre behaviour. She can age how she likes but people will comment, she’s not exactly a private person.

Mynewnametoday · 18/01/2023 20:25

But it’s grim how she’s still getting her baps out at 60. It’s sad to see the desperation. Yeah mick Jagger prances about the stage but he doesn’t get his knob out and post weird videos on Instagram.

XenoBitch · 18/01/2023 20:25

Yes, she can do what she wants to her face... and people are allowed to say it looks bizarre.

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:26

@Theluggage15 so she has to behave in a particular way does she? Says who? The rules that people are making up on this thread about how women should behave as they age are ASTOUNDING!

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bellac11 · 18/01/2023 20:26

Theluggage15 · 18/01/2023 20:24

Cher still tours, Dolly Parton still tours, it’s got nothing to do with her being a older female singer, all to do with her bizarre behaviour. She can age how she likes but people will comment, she’s not exactly a private person.

And those two have also had huge amounts of plastic surgery, they dont too (too) odd.

But OP continues to ignore the fact that there are male older performers who have been ridiculed over the years.

ArseInTheDogBowl · 18/01/2023 20:26

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:23

@ArseInTheDogBowl but it’s up to her. You clearly have some seriously judgemental views about how women should behave.

From my comments, how can you possibly tell what my views are on how women should behave- or if I think they should behave any differently to men?

Believe me, if Mick Jagger was crawling under a bed and posting pics of his arse sticking out, I'd probably think worse of him than Madonna.

Mynewnametoday · 18/01/2023 20:27

Cher and Dolly are glamourous and talented without behaving bizarrely or posting grotesque images.

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