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To think the misogyny directed at Madonna is grim

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Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:06

Obviously Piers Morgan is a monumental arse but his attitude is typical of the misogynistic abuse directed at Madonna. She’s doing a world tour of her 40 years of greatest hits. Mick Jagger, Elton John etc are all also still touring into their 70’s and 80’s and that’s fine as they are ‘legends’ but Madonna, arguably one of greatest female artists ever is tragic and gets loads of abuse for how she dresses, what she wears, how much Botox she has, etc etc.

Total and utter misogyny.

To think the misogyny directed at Madonna is grim
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FurAndFeathers · 18/01/2023 21:40

ReamsOfCheese · 18/01/2023 20:14

Her attitude to normal female ageing is a product of internalised misogyny. That's tragic.
I don't think it's misogynistic to point that out.

Please do tell us the rules for ‘normal female ageing’ @ReamsOfCheese as you clearly don’t believe adult women should have the autonomy to decide for ourselves

JanusTheFirst · 18/01/2023 21:41

I can't stand her because she has a thin little voice and always has had.

She co-writes some decent songs but almost anyone else could sing them better.

It isn't misogyny to think she's not the queen of pop or even a lady in waiting. So many more with better voices.

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 21:43

@HotDogJumpingFrogHaveACookie oh for gods sake- now I am weird too because I find some of the views on here depressing, sexist and ageist at best 🙄 As someone said, this place is crackers

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bellac11 · 18/01/2023 21:45

Changechangychange · 18/01/2023 21:38

So you thought getting her tits out was perfectly normal when she was 35, but the same behaviour is “bizarre and worrying” and possibly indicative of mental illness age 65? Ok.

Ive already explained why its different.

longwayoff · 18/01/2023 21:48

I'm sure I saw a thread of outrage about a trans person on Christmas TV playing the piano with their current genitalia? Dont recall their age being mentioned. Nor their mental health.

Bikeybikeface · 18/01/2023 21:53

She’s gross and creepy. I think we women are still allowed an opinion on other women (and men) even if it doesn’t agree with you op.

ConcordeOoter · 18/01/2023 22:00

"Creepy old"

Do you think it's seen as creepy when old people act like they're in their sexual prime, then? Come off as a bit repulsive to some people?

For the record Piers is an idiot and Madonna can do what she likes but still.

Ponoka7 · 18/01/2023 22:05

Bunty1958 · 18/01/2023 21:13

OMG I'm a 1958 born girl too.
If Madonna was still just wanting to shock to show older women can be sexy then good on her.
Sadly I think she's lost her way. Come on M accept your age no more plastic surgery and honestly who wants to look at a 64 year old gyrating bum!

If the arse still looks as good, what's the age of it got to do with not wanting to see it? As older people It's more creepy and strange to want to see young women gyrating.
If you are the type of woman who piers Morgan hates, you know that you are getting it right.

Extendivecover · 18/01/2023 22:08

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:42

@Mellymoon says who exactly? Who says she’s lost it?

So much for women supporting women

Why do we have to support women regardless of their behaviour? I love Dolly , Madonna is just daft really

MysteryBelle · 18/01/2023 22:11

I totally ignore Piers. But re Madonna, she has always been vile. Back years ago, she took advantage of a very young teen boy and had sex with him. She was much older. When I found this out, I had no respect for her. Go read her account of it. It is child abuse in my opinion and if she weren’t famous, she wouldn’t have gotten away with it.

Lost123454 · 18/01/2023 22:13

She's far too old to be putting it about still

Nobody wants to see that

CallTheMobWife · 18/01/2023 22:18

Letshaveablackcelebration2022 · 18/01/2023 20:13

@Devoutspoken eh? Am using them as a comparison. Older men touring = ok, older women = tragic and embarrassing apparently. Double standards

Except Older men touring is tragic and embarrasing too, and it gets said often. At least Elton John can sing and writes the music, wtf does Madonna do? She can't even sing, never could.

Madonna really does bring it on herself. Nobody wants to see her bare arse, any more than we want to see Mick Jaggers.

Greenfairydust · 18/01/2023 22:19

''@Mynewnametoday · Today 20:27
Cher and Dolly are glamourous and talented without behaving bizarrely or posting grotesque images.''

I agree. They also have managed to diversify their career (acting, business ventures) as they grew older and I think they have kept the public's affection and respect and always come across as strong, smart, funny women.

I used to be a huge Madonna fan but she lost me a couple of decades ago because she just started to basically try too hard and became a bit of a joke.

Of course ageism and misogyny play a part in the criticism that she gets but I don't think she has done herself any favour. Trying to compete with 20 year old pop stars is never going to work.

To me she used to be so beautiful and unique and she probably would look a thousand time better if she had not gone for extreme plastic surgery and ridiculous outfits and just stayed more natural.

MysteryBelle · 18/01/2023 22:19

Madonna is what’s grim. Fact.

Fullsomefrenchie · 18/01/2023 22:27

I’m not sure actually, I don’t see the likes of jagger doing what Madonna does. The plastic surgery, the heavily filtered photos to make her look forty years younger and 3 stone lighter , the heavily sexualised Images. Although she’s always making out she has young boyfriends in their 20s and jagger does have some previous for that.

I follow Madonna on insta and honestly some of the shit she pulls is really quite odd.

it’s all image though, from what I understand she goes home to bed alone. But she’s trying harder and harder to stay relevant and to shock and it now all feels a little disturbing as opposed to challenging.

Chibbers · 18/01/2023 22:34

If I want to see old women's tits and arse then I'll take a job in a care home.
Anyone in their sixties trying to act like they're still twenty five are pathetic.
Just the same as on this forum middle aged men are criticised for dressing like they're still twenty five.
It's not exclusive to older women.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/01/2023 22:37

"If I want to see old women's tits and arse then I'll take a job in a care home."

What a disgusting comment @Chibbers
How about just not buying a ticket, then?

RedAndBlueStripedGolfingUmbrella · 18/01/2023 22:41

Ugh, didn't know somebody had put 50 pence in Piers to set him off on one again, his attitude doesn't surprise me in the the slightest though!
Came to say YANBU on your title alone, some of the comments I've seen on Twitter are disgusting.
I bloody love Madonna, always have
Why do people give a shit what she wears, or "what she's done to her face?;" 🙄
It's her appearance, what she wants to do with it.
As for still touring in her 60s, I can only hope I've got half as much of her stamina and energy when I get to that age! 🙂

RedAndBlueStripedGolfingUmbrella · 18/01/2023 22:43

Chibbers · 18/01/2023 22:34

If I want to see old women's tits and arse then I'll take a job in a care home.
Anyone in their sixties trying to act like they're still twenty five are pathetic.
Just the same as on this forum middle aged men are criticised for dressing like they're still twenty five.
It's not exclusive to older women.

Ewww. (Eww at you, not Madonna btw)
No what's pathetic is your shallow disgusting attitude.

JackieQueen · 18/01/2023 22:46

I don't really care how she looks, I just think she's a great entertainer. She's always loved to shock, why should she stop now?😃

SeeYouNextTLol · 18/01/2023 22:48

She is getting on a bit

Chibbers · 18/01/2023 22:48

@Mumtobabyhavoc don't worry yourself, none of my money will be spent on a ticket for that.
@RedAndBlueStripedGolfingUmbrella Call me shallow all you like, but you can't escape the truth.

RedAndBlueStripedGolfingUmbrella · 18/01/2023 22:49

SeeYouNextTLol · 18/01/2023 22:48

She is getting on a bit

So? What's your point?

SeeYouNextTLol · 18/01/2023 22:50

She should fuck off and do one. But I was trying not to be crude. 🤣

FurAndFeathers · 18/01/2023 22:51

Chibbers · 18/01/2023 22:34

If I want to see old women's tits and arse then I'll take a job in a care home.
Anyone in their sixties trying to act like they're still twenty five are pathetic.
Just the same as on this forum middle aged men are criticised for dressing like they're still twenty five.
It's not exclusive to older women.

So you’re an equal-opportunities bigot?

good to know your ageism isn’t tainted with sexism too