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Mum's boyfriend kicking her out of their home after 24 years

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heathspeedwell · 04/12/2022 19:44

Just found out that my mum's partner has sold their house and is kicking her out. She doesn't know yet.

They aren't married but she invested £25k into their first home, which they bought for £125k. Her name has never been on the deeds.

They have moved house four times and their current home is worth maybe £800k. She's done loads of DIY and they have also had lodgers that she has done the work for. She paid £30k for the kitchen last year.

My mum's boyfriend's son (whom I have thought of as a stepbrother) has said that his dad plans to give my mum back the £25k from their first house. We are both shocked that his dad is being so mean.

Although they are not married I can't believe that he can get away with just giving her the £25k. If she can prove she bought the kitchen does that give her any rights at all?

Hoping that someone can give me advice on what my mum should do. Is it better if she stays in the house until they reach a fair settlement or is she better to get away as soon as possible?

OP posts:
LadyEloise1 · 12/05/2023 12:39

@heathspeedwell
".... he's already moved on to his next victim."

ShockShockShock
Oh Lordy. Your poor Mum.
I hope she has a sh*t hot lawyer.
So it wasn't, as I feared , the ex wanting her out so his dc could inherit.
Very nice of his son to give you the heads up.
Wishing you and your dm the best.

stayingcool · 05/07/2023 23:39

Any update OP?

JH20000 · 01/12/2023 18:26

Don’t want to ignore but thank you all. Just working out next steps as physically I feel sick with a massive headache from the crying.

LadyEloise1 · 01/12/2023 18:35

Have you name changed @JH20000 ?
Are you the original OP ?

wyse · 02/12/2023 11:12

? This is an old thread? Is this an attempt at an update?

KeziaOAP · 02/12/2023 13:35

Think @JH20000 has posted on the wrong thread by mistake rather than her own?

JH20000 · 02/12/2023 15:51

Oh god sorry yes, wrong thread apologies!

JH20000 · 02/12/2023 15:52

I had meant to post on mine and somehow accidentally ended up on this one, sorry!

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