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Hubby booked holiday without our baby

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Lookforstars89 · 06/10/2022 07:37

My husband has booked a holiday ( mon to fri) for us for next year as a surprise for our anniversary which is lovely....until he told me it is just for me and him and our baby (who will be 15months) is staying at home with the grandparents.
I honestly don't know how to feel about this as I wouldn't have dreamed of leaving our baby at home so young to go off abroad. I know he means well but he seems annoyed that I've questioned why he isn't coming and annoyed at to why I have asked him why he didn't ask me first how I would feel about leaving baby at home.
How would you feel if your other half did this?
AIBU to feel a bit annoyed?
I know I probably sound super ungrateful but our baby is only 5 months at the moment and the thought of leaving him for almost a week makes me feel uncomfortable.

OP posts:
CornishTiger · 08/04/2023 16:06

@Emmalou15 why have you resurrected an old thread?

JMSA · 08/04/2023 17:38

lannistunut · 06/10/2022 08:02

Does he always makes unilateral decisions? Or arrange a 'surprise'? It's a way of getting exactly what he wants.

Agree with this - he is using the 'surprise' for his own ends.

Oh, for God's sake 🙄

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