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To hope Amber Heard is lying?

192 replies

roadsweep · 06/05/2022 13:31

Otherwise it's just another abused woman that's not believed.

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fairytwinkletastic · 06/05/2022 13:33

Either way it's awful. One hand, a person I have admired for years has done appalling things. Other hand, someone is willing to lie to that extent. No winners here.

Suzi888 · 06/05/2022 13:48

I thought the same OP.

Either way, both aren’t coming out of this well. Whether Depp cares how he’s coming across I don’t know, curled up in a ball, drugged off his face. How embarrassing for his children….

Both of them are actors, so how plausible either performance is on the stand I don’t know.

Heard doesn’t look great, why did she record so much and not just with Depp, she records herself and it’s not great- any of it. Telling her dog she will kill it etc it’s bizarre.

The money this costing, could be better used elsewhere. Heards legal team aren’t the best.

Toxic both of them. That’s my verdict!

roadsweep · 06/05/2022 13:52

Agree they both look so bad.

Heard's crying with no tears is excruciating.

Depp's falling about laughing every 5 seconds is the same.

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MangoJuice008 · 06/05/2022 13:54

Heard is the abuser. Depp clearly cracked after being abused.

GoingOnce · 06/05/2022 13:54

The whole thing is just awful and I can’t believe it is aired on television as must-see tv. Whatever the truth, it is absolutely none of anyone else’s business (outside of their families and law enforcement). People are enjoying watching two individuals attempt to destroy one another. It’s just wrong that Americans watch trials as entertainment.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/05/2022 13:56

Yes. The hope that she is lying is the only thing that makes this entire circus palatable. Otherwise what we have is an abused woman being torn apart at the behest of her abuser on a world stage while the whole world shouts witch.

TheKeatingFive · 06/05/2022 13:57

It's awful. To echo the previous poster, it's sickening that it's been aired to the globe and treated as entertainment by many.

MattDamon · 06/05/2022 13:58

She's already proven her case. Depp is an abuser. His appeal failed. This judgement changes nothing.

newnamethanks · 06/05/2022 13:59

Vile pair, aren't they? It's akin to setting fire to yourselves in public. They seem well-matched. Currently feeling very sorry for Vanessa Paradis and their children. Long marriage. I hope their memories are better than this.

purpleme12 · 06/05/2022 14:01

Just the whole thing should be kept private it's not the sort of thing that should be aired for all to see

HeadNorth · 06/05/2022 14:02

A UK Court has found that Depp abused her on 12 occasions. He sent texts about fucking her burnt corpse. Why does everyone think she is lying?

FourTeaFallOut · 06/05/2022 14:03

I don't think she is lying. I just think that's how the audience justifies their gaze and judgement.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/05/2022 14:03

MattDamon · 06/05/2022 13:58

She's already proven her case. Depp is an abuser. His appeal failed. This judgement changes nothing.

Well not really. Whether he loses or wins, hes proven Amber Heard is an abuser. She's not an innocent victim in all this.

MattDamon · 06/05/2022 14:05

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/05/2022 14:03

Well not really. Whether he loses or wins, hes proven Amber Heard is an abuser. She's not an innocent victim in all this.

Actually, yes really. I've read everything and watched everything and he hasn't 'proven' she's anything other than someone he holds violent and abusive feelings for. Johnny has some good bots trolling for him though.

WilsonMilson · 06/05/2022 14:06

To me, Heard is clearly the abuser. Depp had big problems with alcohol and drugs that clearly intensified during their time together, but that doesn’t make him an abuser. Their relationship was hideous and toxic and fact that this is being played out to the world is pretty disgusting, but I truly believe Amber is a dangerous liar, narcissist and abuser.

purpleme12 · 06/05/2022 14:08

I haven't followed all of it but from what I know it just sounds toxic on both sides. The worst thing is that it's all playing out in public I can't see whose interest that's in

WilsonMilson · 06/05/2022 14:09

MattDamon · 06/05/2022 14:05

Actually, yes really. I've read everything and watched everything and he hasn't 'proven' she's anything other than someone he holds violent and abusive feelings for. Johnny has some good bots trolling for him though.

Well, I’m not a bot (as my long mumsnet history will show) and I believe Amber is quite clearly the instigator of physical abuse in this case. I think you will find, if you look on any social media platform, that the vast majority of people agree with me.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/05/2022 14:09

Can you not handle that others have a different opinion so describe them as bots? Cute. But I too am reading and watching and I see them both behaving badly but that she is an abuser too. She's not innocent simply because she's a woman.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/05/2022 14:10

I think you will find, if you look on any social media platform, that the vast majority of people agree with me

That's hardly a metric for truth.

HRTQueen · 06/05/2022 14:12

JD has not proven anything that’s why he lost his last case

heavy drinking and cocaine use makes people angry and paranoid but somehow JD seems except from acting out on those feels when many many other people do even if they have no history of doing so before (which he actually has)

no surprise many would have no doubt believes OJ Simpson was innocent too if that trial was today

I’ve never seen such scorn projected on to a man not even Wayne Couzens it’s very odd but it’s deep rooted misogyny to hate women that dare to challenge so called nice men

StooOrangeyForCrows · 06/05/2022 14:12

I think he is minimising to a massive degree and I think she is spinning it a bit. I don't believe she would have divorced him after 15 months if he hadn't done really bad stuff though. He must have been hell to live with and I'm sure she wouldn't have been so explicit if she can't back 90% of it up with proof.

How the jury are going to call it though? They perhaps should make them give each other a dollar and leave it at that because AH could have left him at any time.

BeyondPurpleTulips · 06/05/2022 14:13

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/05/2022 14:03

Well not really. Whether he loses or wins, hes proven Amber Heard is an abuser. She's not an innocent victim in all this.

Regardless of whether she is the worst abuser known to man or not (I fall on the side of not, but whatever - that's actually irrelevant here), the court case is purely to prove whether she was fair to call him (technically not even "him" as she didn't name him in her article) abusive. Even if she is indeed the bad guy and he only reacted to her provocation, she would still be within her rights to call his behaviour abusive.

What she did or didn't do is not on trial here. A lot of people seem to have forgotten that.

allyjay · 06/05/2022 14:15

Oh the Johnny bots are out in force again
Johnny is an abuser

roadsweep · 06/05/2022 14:19

MangoJuice008 · 06/05/2022 13:54

Heard is the abuser. Depp clearly cracked after being abused.

Is it clear? I thought that's for the jury to decide

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roadsweep · 06/05/2022 14:20

MattDamon · 06/05/2022 13:58

She's already proven her case. Depp is an abuser. His appeal failed. This judgement changes nothing.

It's trail by media at the moment. Seems everyone hates her

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