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SMOKERS

249 replies

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 20:44

Why do people insist on smoking in doorways!?

If you want to go into a shop or a pub why is it acceptable to get blasted in the face with second hand smoke?

You go to a CHILDREN’S play park where you'll find groups of parents smoking....
School gates....

I mean Really!!!!

Why isn't smoking banned in outdoor public places yet!?

It's crazy.

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ClariceQuiff · 12/03/2022 20:47

Why do people insist on smoking in doorways!?

Because they want shelter but it's illegal to smoke indoors.

Pumperthepumper · 12/03/2022 20:47

I agree with you, it’s rank.

use257 · 12/03/2022 20:48

You're not going to die from that

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CannaBelieve · 12/03/2022 20:49

not a nice habit, but its outside so disperses quickly enough

can't get riled at that one!

YumiOomy · 12/03/2022 20:49

I do like a good puff and it’s only fair to share

monkeysox · 12/03/2022 20:50

Because they're inconsiderate arse holes

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 20:52

@CannaBelieve

not a nice habit, but its outside so disperses quickly enough

can't get riled at that one!

You're in each others personal space heading for the same door, they take a drag and blow it in your face?

🤢

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twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 20:53

@YumiOomy

I do like a good puff and it’s only fair to share
Mmmmm yum.

Even better if you have covid you can really share by blowing the particles all over me too 👌

Nice one 👍

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Pyri · 12/03/2022 20:55

Really weirdly I can’t actually remember the last time I saw someone smoking. Maybe cos I don’t go out to clubs etc anymore but I definitely haven’t noticed people smoking in doorways / in play parks etc.

Really nice change actually now I think of it!

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 12/03/2022 20:58

I am a smoker and was gob smacked to see a mum smoking in our local play park the other day while pushing her child on the swings.
I don't let my child ever see me smoke so when he was asking to go on the swings I didn't want to be pushing into a cloud of her smoke so had to say no.

That said OP, some smokers are just arseholes just like some non-smokers.

CannaBelieve · 12/03/2022 20:59

its a tiny amount yo breath in though. you'd fare worse walking down the road!

nah, not great but not the worst thing really

smokers have to smoke somewhere i suppose

Pumperthepumper · 12/03/2022 21:02

@CannaBelieve

its a tiny amount yo breath in though. you'd fare worse walking down the road!

nah, not great but not the worst thing really

smokers have to smoke somewhere i suppose

In their own homes then? Does it have to be in the doorways of shops?
IgiveupallthenamesIwantedareg0 · 12/03/2022 21:02

If there was a total ban on smoking, there would be a HUGE tax loss which you, OP, and all the other moaners would have to cover. You'll probably post another time about your kid wasn't invited to a party, somebody seemed to be drunk within a ten mile radius of you, your neighbours' baby three streets away was crying too loud when yours was having the afternoon nap and fireworks on Bonfire Night! Get a life -live and let live! Do you drive a car? You know, petro lfumes .....................

Strawmite · 12/03/2022 21:04

I agree OP. I also hate when you’re walking down a street and the person in front of you is smoking and you just have to breathe it in for ages. I know it’s personal choice but honestly I find it completely and utterly revolting.

firstimemamma · 12/03/2022 21:05

Yanbu op it's awful.

MrsTerryPratchett · 12/03/2022 21:08

You got it banned inside now you're complaining it isn't banned outside. Live and let live. And the breathless, SECONDHAND SMOKE nonsense. A single breath of second hand smoke outside is doing the sum total of bugger all to you.

People just love having someone to pillory, don't they?

BadgeronaMoped · 12/03/2022 21:11

Never been a smoker, I quite like the smell of fresh fag smoke though Grin some sort of odd scent switch was flicked during one of my pregnancies...

I find the number of young adults who smoke quite surprising, but perhaps its because they've grown up seeing their parents smoke?

vodkaredbullgirl · 12/03/2022 21:11
Hmm
lifeuphigh · 12/03/2022 21:11

YANBU it’s revolting and really should be banned in playgrounds.

DS goes to swimming lessons at a school and every week without fail this Dad lights up as soon as he has dropped off his child while walking off the school campus. Why not just wait the 30 seconds to actually be off the campus so those of us and our kids who haven’t yet dropped off don’t have to smell it? Vile vile vile.

dirtyjoan · 12/03/2022 21:11

I'm an occasional/social smoker and I hate having a walk through a cloud of smoke to get in a shop. People often smoke right outside the supermarket doors and it's gross.

SparklyLeprechaun · 12/03/2022 21:12

Just how often do you come across this problem? I hardly ever notice anyone smoking anymore, a few people outside pubs maybe, it's not exactly a widespread issue.

BadgeronaMoped · 12/03/2022 21:12

I second the live and let live message too.

CannaBelieve · 12/03/2022 21:12

its not banned outside...leave them to it