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SMOKERS

249 replies

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 20:44

Why do people insist on smoking in doorways!?

If you want to go into a shop or a pub why is it acceptable to get blasted in the face with second hand smoke?

You go to a CHILDREN’S play park where you'll find groups of parents smoking....
School gates....

I mean Really!!!!

Why isn't smoking banned in outdoor public places yet!?

It's crazy.

OP posts:
Fayekrista · 12/03/2022 22:32

@twiggy19

Why do people insist on smoking in doorways!?

If you want to go into a shop or a pub why is it acceptable to get blasted in the face with second hand smoke?

You go to a CHILDREN’S play park where you'll find groups of parents smoking....
School gates....

I mean Really!!!!

Why isn't smoking banned in outdoor public places yet!?

It's crazy.

Because its outside?? You say school gates, so they our following the rules by not smoking on the premises. They are smoking outside of pubs so following the rules. Tbh I'd be more worried about the pollution of cars/lorries. How dare parents smoke in an outdoor place! You are basically judging them as parents for smoking. I hope you've never consumed alcohol infront of your child or a chocolate bar. You're encouraging obesity & alcoholism 🤔😒 And I say this as a non smoker!
Gwenhwyfar · 12/03/2022 22:36

@SparklyLeprechaun

Just how often do you come across this problem? I hardly ever notice anyone smoking anymore, a few people outside pubs maybe, it's not exactly a widespread issue.
There big class difference in how many people smoke. When I lived in a deprived area almost everybody smoked. Maybe that's the case for OP?
snortingwhenIlaugh · 12/03/2022 22:39

I have a list of things similar which annoy me ever so slightly such as Vans/lorries parking outside my house and crying babies on airplanes. Regardless of how much it niggles me, I know they're still entitled to do so, so I get over it. I'd say this is up there with those, can annoy you, but also nothing you can do about it.

MarthaFokker · 12/03/2022 22:41

@Pumperthepumper

I couldn’t give a shit if anyone chooses to smoke, that’s on them. I do care if they choose to spark up in a doorway or in a play park because it’s antisocial and rank. As is sitting with your engine idling, picking your nose in a cafe and spraying perfume on a train.
and spraying perfume on a train.

That's a complete waste of perfume anyway. It'll never mask the smell of metal Grin

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 22:41

@Blossom64265

This is part of why I read here. As a foreigner, I find it fascinating. Our indoor smoking bans include a radius around doorways and windows. It never even occurred to me someplace wouldn’t bother adding such a simple provision.
Which country are you from?

Sounds inviting

OP posts:
MissMaple82 · 12/03/2022 22:42

It's vile and inconsiderate. Forcing others to breathe in their toxic smoke and smell as rank as their breath does!

ClariceQuiff · 12/03/2022 22:43

That's a complete waste of perfume anyway. It'll never mask the smell of metal Grin

Not to mention that trains smell lovely au naturale ...

Pumperthepumper · 12/03/2022 22:45

@MarthaFokker 😂😂😂😂

Mrsmch123 · 12/03/2022 22:47

It's rank🤢 just because you and your child breath in smoke all day doesn't mean me and my child want to breath it in😷 fair enough outside away from everyone but no need for it in childrens play parks

MotherofAutism · 12/03/2022 22:56

You're an ex smoker who now wants smoking banned in outside public places - which is anywhere except your private property!? How would you have felt had that been banned whilst you were still smoking OP!?

Blossomtoes · 12/03/2022 22:56

@GrandTheftWalrus

I smoked outside a hospital when I was told I had lost my baby. I didn't give a fuck about signs etc. I was told on the day Boris had a party on my own that my baby was dead.
So sorry. It would take a real bastard to begrudge you a cigarette that day. 💐
DogforPM · 12/03/2022 22:57

I’d imagine it’s the same type of person who smokes in a doorway/play park that would also park in a parent and child parking space, because ‘it’s not illegal and everyone has the same rights’ argument. Both selfish and inconsiderate.

Bubblesandsqueak1 · 12/03/2022 23:00

If you are that bothered by smoke ban all cars and vans as they harm you more then walking past a smoker

GrandTheftWalrus · 12/03/2022 23:02

@Blossomtoes thank you.

CannaBelieve · 12/03/2022 23:02

Grin@Squiff70 calm down love, calm down

Pumperthepumper · 12/03/2022 23:03

@Bubblesandsqueak1

If you are that bothered by smoke ban all cars and vans as they harm you more then walking past a smoker
Smokers also drive cars.
RampantIvy · 12/03/2022 23:03

A lot of defensive smokers on this thread Hmm

Booboobibles · 12/03/2022 23:04

Hardly anyone smokes outside in my area although I can smell weed right now while I’m lying in bed and that really pisses me off!

I like the smell of cigarette smoke though….I used to hate it but I miss it now and I miss the more relaxed, less policed times.

DogforPM · 12/03/2022 23:06

Cars have a purpose and are important for society to function, can the same be said for smokers?

BootsScootsAndToots · 12/03/2022 23:07

@MrsTerryPratchett

You got it banned inside now you're complaining it isn't banned outside. Live and let live. And the breathless, SECONDHAND SMOKE nonsense. A single breath of second hand smoke outside is doing the sum total of bugger all to you.

People just love having someone to pillory, don't they?

You sound like you don't think it was a good idea to ban smoking inside? Hmm

It's a filthy habit, that makes you smell and then inflict that stink on others (being caught in a lift with someone who's just had a smoke, smokers breath when they're talking to you 🤢)

Nothing about smoking is ok.

shellbelle3 · 12/03/2022 23:11

Don't come to France 😂

chaosrabbitland · 12/03/2022 23:14

@DogforPM

Cars have a purpose and are important for society to function, can the same be said for smokers?
well im a fully functioning adult smoker who contributes to society by working , im sure many other smokers are too , but apparently we are all useless non functioning bums who dont aid society at all according to what you have just said , oh and apparently we dont have any purpose either ,il have to ask my family and friends if they feel that way about me ,, im pretty sure they dont
DogforPM · 12/03/2022 23:22

Why don’t you ask them about your decision to smoke instead?

Blossomtoes · 12/03/2022 23:23

@DogforPM

Cars have a purpose and are important for society to function, can the same be said for smokers?
That doesn’t make their emissions any less harmful.
DogforPM · 12/03/2022 23:24

So why don’t smokers stop smoking if it serves no function and only contributes to dangerous fumes?

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