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SMOKERS

249 replies

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 20:44

Why do people insist on smoking in doorways!?

If you want to go into a shop or a pub why is it acceptable to get blasted in the face with second hand smoke?

You go to a CHILDREN’S play park where you'll find groups of parents smoking....
School gates....

I mean Really!!!!

Why isn't smoking banned in outdoor public places yet!?

It's crazy.

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ISpyCobraKai · 12/03/2022 21:33

It's such an antisocial thing to do now even though it's perfectly legal.
Banned inside so obviously go outside, but no because non smokers are outside.
It's not a bad thing that the rates of smoking are coming down but demonising a slight waft of second hand smoke is daft.

ButtockUp · 12/03/2022 21:34

Why don't you just kill them?

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 21:35

@ButtockUp

Why don't you just kill them?
Haha. No comment
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ButtockUp · 12/03/2022 21:35

Obviously didn't really mean that... but your venom for smokers seems over the top, to say the least.

sqirrelfriends · 12/03/2022 21:36

I don't know OP but it drives me mad.

There's a mum at DC's school who always smokes at pick up and drop off, even when there are literally hundreds of kids around, she hangs about smoking by the bottleneck into the school. Why? Why can't you smoke elsewhere?! Why where everyone has to walk through it?

I imagine she is either oblivious or doesn't GAF.

ISpyCobraKai · 12/03/2022 21:36

@ButtockUp

Why don't you just kill them?
Lol! Grin It's about the only thing that will make non smokers happy.
WhatisanODP · 12/03/2022 21:37

I mean, the smoking ban killed the big bingo halls and how many people would come in.

So many pubs have closed.

And so much is taken in tax off the sale of cigarettes. Who’s going to make up this shortfall in tax?

I don’t tend to find people being massively antisocial with fags. Plus we don’t know what stresses are going on in peoples lives. Plus in this day and age, if you say the wrong thing to the wrong person your likely going to get an earful of abuse or a beating.

Tell you what, rather than whinge behind a computer screen, you go and start approaching these smokers and let us know how you get on.

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 21:37

Social consideration if only eh?

People just have no respect for others.

If it's not illegal I'm doing it
If it is illegal I'm still doing it but more carefully

🙄

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vodkaredbullgirl · 12/03/2022 21:37

Its okay we doing that ourselves.

Notimeforaname · 12/03/2022 21:38

Or smokers could just agree to be considerate to other people?
You're never going to get everyone in the world to be considerate to each other at all times.
Some things just have to be lived with. Space has to be shared and sometimes it's not pleasant.

That's life.

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 21:38

@Blue565

Are you an ex smoker per chance OP?
Yep
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Blue565 · 12/03/2022 21:38

I could tell Wink

vodkaredbullgirl · 12/03/2022 21:39

that explains it

Pumperthepumper · 12/03/2022 21:39

The OP isn’t saying not to smoke at all. They’re saying not to smoke in places with heavy footfall like shop doorways or in places with children like playparks. It’s really not that much of an ask.

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 21:39

@vodkaredbullgirl

that explains it
It really doesn't 🤔
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ButtockUp · 12/03/2022 21:41

Just buy a packet and chill.

Ex smokers are the worst. It just reminds them of the joy that they've lost.

Most non smokers couldn't care less.

Feelinalrightwiththecrew · 12/03/2022 21:41

It really does

vodkaredbullgirl · 12/03/2022 21:42

Ex smoker's are the worst.

HELLITHURT · 12/03/2022 21:42

I hate smoking with a vengeance, but quit with the COVID excuse!!

If pubs etc don't want people sheltering on doorways to smoke, they need to put up signs and police if!

ISpyCobraKai · 12/03/2022 21:43

I know many smokers, actually the vast majority are now vapers, but all are/were as considerate as possible.
It's never enough though.
Smoke travels, it stinks, its outside as it now can't be inside, but other than you finding it gross, it won't cause you a problem.
For the first time in 30 years I'm almost smoke free and have always done my best to keep it away from others.

twiggy19 · 12/03/2022 21:44

Today I had to go into a pub briefly.
(Don't drink out so it's rare)

On my way out

The landlady is standing literally back against the door - chuffing her head off - she gingerly stepped to the side as I walked by in very close proximity. Why is that fair?

There was a huge car park surrounding said pub, as well as a garden area with several beaches.

Why oh why are you standing against the entrance/exit?

A pub labelled family friendly and plenty of children going in with there families.
😕

OP posts:
ISpyCobraKai · 12/03/2022 21:45

@HELLITHURT

I hate smoking with a vengeance, but quit with the COVID excuse!!

If pubs etc don't want people sheltering on doorways to smoke, they need to put up signs and police if!

Pubs are happy for people to smoke there. Have a drink, want a fag, its the way it works.
WorraLiberty · 12/03/2022 21:49

@twiggy19

Today I had to go into a pub briefly. (Don't drink out so it's rare)

On my way out

The landlady is standing literally back against the door - chuffing her head off - she gingerly stepped to the side as I walked by in very close proximity. Why is that fair?

There was a huge car park surrounding said pub, as well as a garden area with several beaches.

Why oh why are you standing against the entrance/exit?

A pub labelled family friendly and plenty of children going in with there families.
😕

The landlady is standing literally back against the door - chuffing her head off

You mean smoking a cigarette?

Are you one of those people who describe overweight people as 'stuffing their faces', 'troughing food', 'shovelling it in'?

Look, most people think smoking is a filthy addiction and it stinks (even most smokers), but the drama llama-ing over breathing in a tiny bit of secondhand smoke is ridiculous.

Not all smokers are inconsiderate but some are. Just like non smokers really.

RumpoleoftheBaileys · 12/03/2022 21:50

How is this hard?

Smoking is a vile, death-causing, anti-social habit.

No-one should be proud to do it and certainly shouldn't do it anywhere where children may be.

HELLITHURT · 12/03/2022 21:50

@ISpyCobraKai I never said it wasn't the way things worked! I said if they don't want to, then they deal with it.

I didn't say they should do it.