I probably was but it was pissing me off.
I have three sons and all have been trained that when you’re peeing you aim for the toilet and if you miss them you clean it up. I leave an antibac spray next to the loo and since the age of about 5ish they’ve been taught to spray the antibac and on their own mess and wipe it up. Tbh it stopped them making a mess pretty quickly.
Anyway, my DS9’s friend is over a lot and pisses all over the loo and often the floor as well. I put it down to being in a rush and wanting to get back to playing etc.
I’d cleaned the bathroom this morning and ds’s friend proceeded to piss all over the toilet seat and on the floor. Literally minutes after I’d cleaned it - he was the first one to use it post cleaning.
I took him in and gave him the antibac and told him to wipe it up and clean it himself. He’s also 9 as well btw.
I was nice about it and said we don’t leave the toilet in that state in this house when we use it.
He went home about 15 min ago and his mum messaged me to say she’s appalled I made him clean it.
I’ve responded politely to say “it’s a shame you’re upset but I’m not cleaning up urine of someone old enough to know how to use a toilet properly...”
I’ve been unreasonable, haven’t i?